Well well, marriage, the beautiful institution where some of those who are inside wants to come out and those who are inside can’t wait to get inside. The irony of life.
Many people have their standards for marriage and I am not left behind. While marriage is not him just about the physical beauty, I am one of those whom the physical appearance matters alot to. I just find myself been integrated into the adage that says that the eye eats first before the mouth. I don’t mean to slight anyone because we are all God’s creation but J like men who have cute appearance. Hence a little bit of handsomeness has to come in for me when it comes to physical appearance. I want to be with someone that I can be proud to walk boldly with.
Then being someone who have seen a lot of shege from men, I would love a romantic husband and also someone who is financially stable. So a combination of the money tick and a touch of goodness in the form of romantic abilities is not too much to ask for. I want to be loved and I want the love expressed.
Well talk of orgasm which is definitely a part of every marriage, I think that the financial orgasm makes the coitus orgasm more beautiful and well acceptable. I believe in love and I am an advocate of love but love without finances is easily strained. Hence the two types of orgasm are acceptable by me and am sure am not asking for too much.
In a man, I want a father, a husband, a friend and a brother. I lost my father at a very tender age and I am someone who is open to correction and learning. I want a man that will lead me and teach me. I want someone I can learn from cos I know I am prone to sco sco. A want a big brother, I want a husband who would love me the way I deserve to be loved and above all, I want a friend who will be my gist partner and my confidant. I want someone who I can be very free with, before whom I can be naked and not ashamed. Whom I don’t have to form anything for or try to fit in. I want a natural loving relationship that’s rooted in sincerity and trust.
I want to marry someone of noble character. Both the beauty and behavior or character boxes has to be checked. I want someone who is diligent and willing to develop or adjust or make compromises just to see the marriage succeed. A want to marry a man of noble character. One thing that turns me off in a relationship is lies and dishonesty. I want to marry someone who is sincere. Well, you would ask if I am and the answer is yes. Sometimes I feel I can be very sincere to a fault and I also want that same trait in a partner.
Talk of submission, I am a woman and I know my place in marriage. As a woman, it is expected of me to submit to my husband as the head of the house and that position is unquestionable. So I am willing to submit to my spouse so as to maintain a healthy condition in the marriage.
With all these said and done, the most important standard for me is that I want to marry a believer and someone with a kind heart. Someone that’s compatible mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually.
Marriage is an honorable institution instituted by God and it should be handled the right way. With the rate of divorce going up by the day, it’s very important that we enter into marriage with the right person and the right attitude and also the willingness to work on ourselves and make compromises for each other. Marriage should be entered into objectively and with the eyes open both spiritually and physically. Love is blind but marriage opens the eyes, so enter with open eyes.