The Crab Bucket Mentality

Yo Jesslets!

This was going to be a post about gosh I can't even remember, I wrote it yesterday and saved it in my drafts on busy.org but the site seems to be down. So you'll just have to wait until the site is up because once I put something down Its erased from my memory.

I checked their discord and all I see are people saying, is it down for you its down for me lol.

I guess that's what decentralisation is about right? Shitty communication with your community. Thankfully we have other front ends so single point of failure can suck it.

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Opinions everywhere

In any case I am sitting here trying to mentally prepare for a wedding, gosh I really am not keen on these events they're so time consuming and I just don't enjoy them but you have to kinda go for moral support and the food right?

I'll probably get tonnes of questions on why I am not married and when I will be, from people who can't even balance their own cheque books or properly wipe their own arses lol

Its a funny old thing at how entitled older people are

Just because you're older doesn't mean you're wiser.
Just because you're older doesn't mean you have life experience. * Just because you're older doens't mean you know whats best for me
Just because you're older doesn't mean you're an authority on anything

People tend to be stingy in general and hold on to what they have unless its opinions, when it comes to opinions they're more than happy to shill that shit out like its the gospel truth.

I don't want what you want

No offense to you and your definition of success but believe it or not I don't want what you want. I don't see your life as success and I don't see your life as the life that would make me happy.

I don't have any opinions on what you do, say and think so why do you have to have ones on mine?

If you're so happy with your life why does it bother you so much what I or others do? Wouldn't you be so content that you couldn't be bothered? Wouldn't you know that people are allowed to live their own life and choose their own happiness?

If you're miserable sort that shit out but don't try to force me down your path because it makes you feel better about your decision.

Just because you blow someone elses candle out doesn't make yours any brighter

Basically If I can't have it, neither should you! We'll you're entitled to your opinion but you're not going to stop me from what I'm doing.

There is no right way to live, just your way, if you don't like your way change it, don't try to change others to suit yours.

If my life shows you all your insecurities that's more a refection on you, than it is on me. We all have one life to live, I don't plan on using it to imitate and follow what others have done, for to em, that is a waste of my life.

Have your say

What do you think? Are people just full of shit? lol

Holla at me in the comments! All my commenters I will now refer to as Jessie. Jessie is a good friend of mine, but Jessies got a girl, and I want to make her mine.

So have at it my Jessies! If you don't have something to comment, simply comment "I am a Jessie."