I have heard of different love stories that has ended up in regret, some didn’t last a month, some lasted but with frustrations before it finally ended. In my own experience, reverse has been the case. Should I just count myself lucky?.
Yes I can fully say I am lucky to have a fantastic relationship that has lasted well without a single day of regret, because it takes both parties to make a relationship work successfully. If she hadn’t been who she is now, even if I had tried my best, we probably would have ended up in separation. So yes I am lucky 😊.
I get so concerned when I see people struggling to have a good relationship experience, it baffles me a lot. This is why I have decided to talk about what makes my relationship work so well.
Communication and Understanding
For a relationship to work perfectly, these two things has to be intact, it’s not only about the physical looks, neither is it about what the second party possesses or how rich they are. That might start a relationship on an interesting ground but would never secure the relationship without good communication and Understanding.
Love doesn’t come with material things, but with good understanding between lovers. When I first was her, I was touched by her beauty and appearance, I approached her and we became friends. It took almost a year before we started a relationship, but within those months, we had series of interactions that made me respect her personality even more than her looks. The more we communicate, the more mutual things I see that we both have, the more I fell in-love.
And ever sincere we started to date, we had not by any means slacked in the way we communicate even when there are physical distances between us.
If young people could create time to know more about the person they are about to get into a relationship with instead of jumping into a relationship days after first sight, it probably would reduce the way heartbreak is been served these days. By so doing, one would be able to decide if the relationship is going to be good enough or not before starting, and will be left with the choice to prevent it if necessary.
I am not saying love at first sight isn’t real, but what I am saying is that most times what we see might be deceiving, judging the book by its cover in this case might cause a lot of damage if care is not taken.
So instead of getting heartbreaks every single moment, and making vows never to love again, why not try this new approach and see if it’s really worth it.
I am not in any way an expert in relationship matters, I have only shared this to see if I can help someone with what I know, since they say that…. No knowledge is lost.
Here is a rough sketch of a picture my girl and I took some days ago, I would have loved to upload her pictures, but she doesn’t appreciate her pictures on the internet.
Thank you for your time, I would love to have your opinion about this topic, additional advises are welcome, as I am open to learning more myself.
