I have a contrary thought for you ... you have reached the correct conclusion. Be content being invisible to people who do not want to see you. Do not try to impress your family when you have more money, because it is good that they are showing you how they think of YOU now. They will love your money but still not you later -- money is an amplifier because people love money, but pay attention to the fact written in Scripture: "For the love of money is the root of all evil." Any evil is possible among people who only see people for the money they have. I know that this is hard because they are your NATURAL family ... but ask the Lord to make you visible to people of His choice for you, and stay invisible along with your money to people who treat you with disrespect.