We believe that if we love someone or care about the person that we should keep them close forever but that is not always the case most times growth naturally creates distance only the lucky ones stay together forever., you learn to love different things, appreciate different things and sometimes there's really nothing to talk about since there's nothing in common.
I once had a best friend or that's how I used to put it then. He and I were almost inseparable. We talked and laughed . We were always in each other's faces but after a while we started liking different things. Appreciated different types of people and wanted to talk about entirely different things. Distance crept in slowly and now we just talk and check in on each other. It did make me feel sad that things didn't stay the same but then it didn't mean we hated each other. We just grew into two very different people.
It's okay to outgrow relationships. People change and that is actually a healthy thing since everyone grows everyday.
Relationships serve different purposes at different times in your life. And it's Okay to want something different
As we grow what we want changes and those people might not be giving you the energy you want in your life. It doesn't mean you don't love them but yeah you just don't click anymore. Outgrowing someone doesn’t mean you’re better than them it just means you're a different person now
It might seem easy reading this but there are some things you should know. Outgrowing people can hurt but then your friendship or relationship was fun while it lasted and it made you happy at that point in time so learn to honour what you had. Sometimes letting go is the best way to prevent hurting them or yourself
A greater percentage of relationships don't last as long as we want it to but that doesn't mean you should not give it your all. It's a good thing to look back and remember that you shared something beautiful with someone and made each other happy in the time you had together
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