Love is a beautiful thing and as beautiful as it may be, also very deadly, unpredictable, unfair and wicked, but it is love. Yeah, Love oh mighty love.source
The idea that someone can live their lives without love is seriously wrong and laughable. It is impossible and ridiculous. Love happens in various ways and that includes our love for money, cars, flashy things, exotic vacations, beautiful women and handsome men. Yes, beautiful women and handsome men!
I Feel Blessed!
How do you get to know that, that person you are with is the one? How do you become comfortable living your life with that person you are with and stay happy? Often times, we hear someone gush that they cannot live without that person in their lives and you wonder why that is. You wonder how they are able to know they are in love and also how long that will last.
Love is hard and it places a burden on you when you decide to ride it. The urges to lie or cheat has to be suppressed and in most cases completely destroyed from our heads. We must be seen by our partners as doing the right things at all times and also living in line with our commitment to love.
I have loved, lived love and presently loving and I find it hard sometimes to explain the process, but I know it feels good because, I feel good. I know people will be people and also, there will be that moment when all we desire as individuals loving others, is to know if they are the right ones for us. Do we fit together? How do you know you have found that one? I mean, it can just as well be a lust, infatuation and flirty airwaves that seems to make us do the unexpected.
I have seen lots of stories of people who told the world that they loved themselves and will never leave each, only to end up dragging themselves in the mud in the eyes of the world.
A Story.
There is a story of a young lady who after giving 3 years of her life to a guy in a relationship, ended up getting dumped and as if that was not enough, the guy got her best friend pregnant and immediately proposed. The lady couldn't believe it because, the same guy made her abort 5 pregnancies in the period of their stay together.
Within a month, the guy went on to marry the lady's friend in a lavish party attended by the high and mighty and they lady not knowing what to do after becoming the object of ridicule, took the easy way out for her... death. She took her life the morning after the wedding.
Love, Oh Love.
Love is wicked as it is beautiful and only time will tell how truly committed to ourselves we are and may be. Time is the measure of love and it allows us find the thing that truly exists in our heads and hearts.
No one can be free from the pains of love and no one can say for sure where their lives will be in a relationship, but, there is a surety that love conquers all and has the ability to set aside the good and the bad.
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