The smile on her face is like magic, her soft words are like cold water, her silence gets me worried, she is all I have got hehe. Of course we are bound to be offended by people, in fact no matter how much we love them one day they will definitely do something that will get us annoyed. But there are some key people in our lives that we cannot get angry with for long, even if we try to keep the anger, we will not succeed 😁. For me that person happens to be my mother.
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My mother is an introvert just like me, she loves peace and want to avoid trouble by all means. If you see her innocent face you would not need anyone to tell you that I am saying the truth. I love her beautiful smiles , though she doesn't talk much yet I enjoy her company. She is the major part my life, if everyone would reject me in the world today, that woman would not. She ensures am safe and sound even when I try to act like a grown up hehe 😁. She would always tell me that no matter how you have grown, you are still my child and as such you are subject to my discipline. If there is any body I pray earnestly never to depart from my life is my mother. I don't know if I can ever love her the way she loves me. Though she doesn't have all the resources in the world but she supports me with the very little that is in her possession. That woman is my hero, each time I want to talk about her, words always fail me.
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But humans will always be humans forget it that she loves me so much and makes me feel like a prince. There are days she acts as if she had a fight with me in her dream. There are days she acts strange , sometimes she gets me so pissed up that I wish I could just disappear but you know what? No matter how angry my mother gets me, once I look upon her face my anger fizzles out instantly. My mother easily cries, when she is pained, the best way to ease her feeling Is to shed tears , can you stand the sight of watching your mother cry for anything at all? Even if she Rob's me of my entire money, it doesn't worth her tears. She is the kind of person that doesn't like to hurt anyone whether intentionally or unintentionally , I think that is why she doesn't love jokes that much but I am teaching her that path currently 😁😁 . Sometimes we dont need to be too rigid, life is meant to be enjoyed, we need to crack jokes and laugh but with limits.
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I remember a day I and my mom had a quarrel over food, she complains I eat without control, I always over look the matter but that day I don't know what came over me, probably it was because I have small money on me that day, you know what money can do If we don't discipline ourselves 😂. I went to the kitchen to get a second round of food when she said , oga, you eat a lot, don't finish my food , do you know how hard things are? seriously I don't know what got me so furious that day. I instantly dropped the plate and told her I could sort myself out I don't need her food anymore. She kept mute and watched me walk out. When I got to my room, and sat for some moments , my conscience began hitting hard on me, I couldn't hold it anymore I had to go and meet her and apologize. I knew she was hurt and that is the last thing I would ever want to cause my mother. Seeing her happy gives me joy. On many other occasions my mom did things that got me angry but I don't know how it works , each time I look upon her face the anger fades aways. I have to adapt to it, therefore, whenever she offends me I just tell her and she says sorry and that is all because being angry with her also hurts me. Frowning at her is like frowning at myself. She's my best friend , no matter how far I go from her, I would still come back to her.
Staying angry with someone we love so much is like kicking barbwires, the longer you stay angry the more you get injured. That is how love works, it breaks all barriers and overlook wrongs.
Another person my anger doesn't work on is my kid sister, that one is trickish, she understands that her smiles and troubled face turns away my wroth, therefore anytime she gets me pissed up, she either gives me a very good smile while saying sorry or look sober. those tricks works on me a lot. Once I see her face troubled , it ignites compassion in me and I just let go the wrong. There was a day I sent her on an errand , when she came back instead of her to keep what I asked her to buy safe, she dropped it carelessly and it got missing. it was the only money i was having that day, now my money is gone and the good is missing hmm!! When she broke the bad news to me I was so furious, and I walked out, when I returned and saw her face dull and worried. I quickly told her it is okay, to make her feel alright I borrowed money from someone and gave her to buy thesame thing for me.
Love knows no bounds. the most powerful force that no one can resist in the world is love. Once it finds its way in, imperfections are overlooked, wrongs are not considered and selfishness passes away.
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