There are different types of friends, some friends are like your relation and can go the extra mile just for you to be happy, why do some friends are there to mock and go against you in any when they mention your name, I try as I can never have any close friends because of what I have experience in the past but no, I didn't learn from my previous mistake, now I have another bitter experience about friends.
Last year gave me the experience I needed in other to learn more about people, I'm not a social type who associates or has multiple friends, I love to differentiate between having close friends and having a talk mate, talk mates are much but I do not keep close friends because I know how friends can be.
I had a taste of being betrayed by one person I called a friend last year, I enrolled myself in a makeup school in other to upgrade my skills, and that was where I met this lovely lady, we became close a bit but I love to give a distance, so that she finish will not end our journey.
I took my time to study this lady and I sensed that she was my type, she is always on her lane, always minding her business, and good at everything she does, we became friends because I love everything about her, she is a reserved person according to the way I viewed her.
To cut a long story short this lady was never who I thought she was, she was a pretender, and she went around spoiling my name because one of my trainers wanted me to assist her with a bride make-up, we agreed and she gave me the date and told me on what to do, I told his lady about it because we were more than close in that training, she is someone I love to share things with whenever I am bothered, this lady went behind my back and spoil everything for me, she told my trainer about what I said and the one I didn't say, but I know nothing about it.
The next Monday my trainer called me and withdrew the job from me, she didn't give any valid explanation but I thought that was how she wanted it, I told my so-called friend about it and she comforted me not knowing she was the one behind the whole tragedy, after our graduation every secret leaked and that was how I got to know that she was the one behind everything that had been happening in the training school.
I confronted her by calling her to know if it was true or all lies but she couldn't deny it, I cut off every relationship with her and deleted her number that night, she called other mates to plead with me but I blocked every one of them, I believe in unity and not despise, I do not know she hated me this much that she could go behind me to spoil my reputation.
I have never been lucky with having close friends in my life, all those friends I have are the ones we met online or who only talk on a casual level nothing like intimate friends with that I could share my secrets, having someone who is always there as a friend is a privilege, if you have one who always gat your back then pay the price by loving them back, not all friends are real, some are enemy in form of a friend.
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