When ever am ready for marriage and after much discussion with my partner and we agreed to settle down with each other then it pass through my ear that my family and hers are not in good terms, firstly it will be heart broken for me because I can see my in-laws and my family create a scene.
First of all I will ask for the root of the problem, because I know that most of the things that can lead to this kind of issue might be from both parents,if it's from them,I will rewhine everything and apply force and more knowledge in correcting the situation. But If I find out that it's from the four Father,in this case should of words because it will be difficult to correct,in my community there are some set of people who some people don't like marrying,they were almost discriminated by all.
It is said that it all started from our four it is said to that the four father's uses them as slave and they were not allowed to Marry them, and it have not yet been resolved since five hundred years ago.
I will try talking to my in-laws family,but it they insist I'm never we will get married,then I will take her away from the house and ask her to live with me,after some months I will start having kids with my partner Having kids is one of the best way to escape that trauma, because with kids there, either my family been angry with me or my in-laws being angry at my partner,it a normal thing I know they will get along with each other... # ghanahives #ghana #ocdb #ecency #write #hives #hbd #family #waves #waiv.