Hello Hivers, how are you doing today? Yesterday I was in threads, and I posted ‘happy father's day my friend’. It is not bad to wish people good! I love speaking positive things to people, that is the kind of person I am.
When I woke up this morning, Someone replied to my thread saying, “I'm not your friend- you are the most shameful person I've ever met on the hive….” I was wondering if maybe I have offended him before, and if I have done bad things to him. I would have pleaded for forgiveness because I love peace.
I love peace and always want serenity where there's peace. To my own surprise, I have never chatted with him in my entire life; we have never talked on any subject matter.
That is to show you that one personality can reveals both online and offline. Personalities are characters that one exhibits everyday. Personality is the attitudes, attributes and behaviors of a person. It reveals who the person is anywhere, anytime. If one personality is bad such as a bully, fights and causes troubles; if such a person is living underground, his behavior will reflect. The person will always want to fight or cause troubles.
If one personality is good such as love, care, happiness and many more, it will reflect in his/her life. I read a book some time ago, and the book said, “the real you is your personality." Which simply means everything about you is your personality- traits, abilities, emotion patterns, interest, values, feelings, behaviors, self-concept and many more.
Person's personality can make one go higher in life and can also make one go down in a twinkle of an eye. The picture in this photo is my nephew. Due to her attitudes in the family, before she asks for something, more than one person has given her which simply means she received her petition for many. Before she got admission, she worked for a year as a sales girl for a woman in our area. When she got admission, the woman paid her school fees for a year.
She is an epitome of love to everyone around her, she is emotional, brilliant, smart, and beautiful. She wrote her last paper two months ago; She was called by the woman to come and help before her results were ready. “Grace is a woman of a heart of gold; she is an epitome of love. She exhibited trust, loyalty, love, transparency and consistency within the 9 months she spent before she got admission.
"I have never gotten a sales girl like her; even my customers missed her.” Why she was in the school, she was loved by people and lectures because of her lifestyle. She would never do something that hurt another person; she's always smiling and happy; she doesn't put her hand in dirty things. Some lecturers called her “my daughter". A lecturer called her one day, “Grace, you scored 49 in my exam but I added 11 marks.I don't like it seeing you score below 60 in my course.” 11 marks was too much, my lecture said “one mark is too big for me to give someone." She earned favors from people through her behaviors and characteristics.
Though, I know you can't know all the personalities of someone because you can never fully know someone else. People keep some parts of themselves intentionally for some reasons and there are parts you may never know that it exists in you unless circumstances trigger it.
How can we improve our personalities?
Love and smile: anytime you see some, it is good to smile and love them.
Keep the rules: anywhere you're, make sure you obey rules and regulations. Breaking the rules may hurt the community. Your feedback to people shouldn't hurt them, give feedback that will motivate people not to discourage or make them angry.
Be positive about people: Don't be negative about people, always be positive. Nobody is above mistake; admit it when you receive constructive criticism, and move on with your life.
Be confident and look elegant
Wear good dresses.
In conclusion, it is best to have good personalities. If you discover that there's an aspect of your life that needs change, you change it. No condition is permanent! The worst person today can be a good person tomorrow if the person is ready to change. A good attitude is the best- it makes people attach themselves to you. Thank you for reading my post.
The picture in this post belongs to me.