My friend Sajid is facing a big problem. The problem is with his girlfriend. She has no idea what is the standard of beauty of a girl. Only he knows that his girlfriend is very beautiful. And he regularly admires her beauty to her lover. But for some reason, his girlfriend doesn't care about his praise at all. Whenever he admires the beauty of the lover, the lover finds out his flaws and starts claiming to be ugly.
From time to time Sajid thinks that he understands the beauty of girls, he is inexperienced. Without realizing it, he is indirectly insulting his girlfriend by repeatedly calling her beautiful. So again and again he thinks, from now on he will never talk about the beauty of his lover.
But Sajid can’t keep said can’t keep this promise. Because, whenever he sees a beautiful girl walking in front of him, his lover says, "Yeah! She's so beautiful. If I could be like her." Sajid then looks carefully, the girl he is talking about is beautiful but not as beautiful as his lover. So again he broke his promise, telling his lover, "You must be more beautiful than her.”
However, it does not work very much. As soon as Sajid heard the compliment on his face, his lover started to find out one flaw after another like a broken record. And helplessly Sajid has to listen to them. Because he does not agree with the words of the lover, she does not have enough arguments by which she will refute the arguments of the lover and establish her own opinion. Even if he gets impatient and says, "Okay, that girl is prettier than you," it's still a danger. The lover will feel pain then. She may even say, "Then you see, other girls are more beautiful than me!"
All in all, Sajid is now like a crocodile in the water and a tiger on the shore. She understands very well that there is a kind of insecurity in her lover about her beauty, which is called ’ Beauty Insecurity’. But he does not know what to do in this situation.
In any case, those who suffer from problems like Sajid or Sajid can comfort the mind by knowing a fact that your lover or the person close to you (woman) is not alone, who suffers from such insecurity about their beauty. Almost every woman in the world has such insecurity about her ownbeautyown beauty.
As much as women are concerned about beauty, much of it is a result of their insecurity and self-absorption. If these two can be avoided, then all women will become confident about their beauty. Because no woman at all is ugly. Everyone is as beautiful as her own. Just because they don't have self-confidence, they have to suffer from insecurity all the time with beauty.
So there will be a request to all women, to acknowledge their natural beauty, give it the most importance. The way the Creator created you is the way you are most beautiful. Yes, you can do beauty treatments for your satisfaction, You can take care of yourself, But they should never be so exaggerated that it seems to you that artificiality is the main source of your beauty you are not so beautiful.
Besides, men can also play an important role in sowing the seeds of beauty confidence among their mothers, sisters, girlfriends, wives, or other female relatives. Appreciate their beauty impersonally, without making fun of their beauty insecurities, explain to them the reasons why they are one and unique. Above all, make them feel that they are really beautiful, so there is no need for them to worry about beauty.
The beauty of the human mind is a real beauty. We should continue our efforts to enhance this beauty. In our endeavors to develop external beauty, we must not let our inner beauty be strangled in any way.
