Change is one of the biggest things that'll ever happen to a man and sometimes, it can either be negative or positive. No one aims to experience negative change, but then it happens to us as a snowball effect of our actions or inactions. Going from being financially free to being broke, is a negative change, but nobody knowingly aims to incur negative change, but sometimes it creates a bigger spiral that makes it impossible for one to recover.
People suffer the stigma of experiencing negative change, but sometimes in other not to experience these stigmas, some people create even bigger loops, by making irrational decisions, even when they should accept the consequences of making mistakes and learn some vital lessons.
Negatives Change Can Create A Downward Spiral
A person who loses their life savings through gambling might borrow money to try and win back that money they've lost, now, it's difficult for them to accept the stigma and consequences that come with their initial mistakes, but in order not to experience these consequences, they try to buy redemption by making more mistakes.
At the end of the day, that creates an irreparable loop that cannot be salvaged. Consequences are part of life and sometimes it comes with essential life lessons that we need to learn, but we're scared of the stigma that is incurred from failing. I use to tout myself as a pragmatic person.
Pragmatism & Proactiveness
How much Can you prevent?
I'm so proactive, before a crisis hits me, it's either I'm already working on a way to avert it or I'm working on ways to make the impact of the crises a little bit minimal. However, in all my proactiveness, I've failed predominantly in so many things. This meant that even if I've managed to avert so many crises, I've still failed at handling so many others.
I try to allow my subconscious to experience the stigma of failure because I think failure is inevitable for every living being. Stigma isn't the only thing that comes with failure, experience does too. But because we're more scared of the former, we fail to allow ourselves to experience the latter. This isn't to say that everyone must grow a thick skin to experience the stigma of failure.
Fear Of Loss: The Immunity Factor
No one should be Immune to fear, because I feel that fear itself checks our very essence, but then, sometimes, we might make frantic calls to avoid the fear of stigma and further compounds our problem. Being in a position of failure is difficult, especially when you've experienced the libration that success brings.
Being scared of negative change wouldn't change its Inevitability because as much as we cannot see the future, it's difficult to not make mistakes. However, there's the shame we feel when we look at our actions and feel we could have done better. One of the best ways to live life is to be appreciative of every opportunity to change who we are for the better.
A Source Of Change Should Be Cherished Forever
Why not?
I know many people that hive changed their lives, put them in a different financial situation, and has helped them navigate their lives to a reasonable extent, but because prices are now particularly low, they dissociate now themselves from the chain, with the excuse that they deserve better mental stability.
These are people who are never deserved of having their lives changed. The main point here is that sometimes people do what's necessary because it's immediately beneficial to them, but when they begin to suffer the consequences, they'll find it difficult to retrace their steps because they've burnt their bridges. "Money is one of the biggest flames that consume people.*
We worship its essence and forget the humanistic utility it represents
The Ultimate Sacrifice
This is to say that some people knowingly make terrible calls out of selfishness, nonchalance, or greed and when the consequences come, they'll begin to gather the embers of the bridge they've burned rather than choosing to dwell in the consequences of their actions and experience all that negative change that came with the terrible choices they've made.
I've lived through the consequences of actions that weren't even from my choices, it hurt a lot, but life is unfair and this unfairness has a way of denting our resolve. Change is generally difficult, sometimes we try to sacrifice some things to achieve some other things, but the process of experiencing something different from what we're used to, can be tough, but when we fear change, how do we explore the possibility of innovations?
Crypto: The Long Process Of Attainability
The crypto market cycle is currently undergoing a process of change, weeding bad actors and projects out and experiencing a reset and we're getting there. A lot of people haven't experienced such a traumatic and emotional process. It feels strange to them to go through the torture of enormous loss, but it's change. It comes with so much compromise of one's goals and ambitions. However I feel that we must accept that change is cleansing, irrespective of the emotional instability that comes with it, we must miss out on the learning process that comes with it.
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