Our life is about not getting it. But we want to get everything all the time in our personal lives. The joyous moment of that power is temporary. After a while we forget this happy moment again. The joy of getting something does not stay in our brain as a long lasting memory in most cases. But the memories of not being able to keep the brain stuck. These pains are usually permanent and always give us pain.
We each have some dreams in our lives. Or many want to get a lot. For example, a boyfriend wants to get his girlfriend or a good quality job or a lot of money or want to be a beautiful wife. That's all we want to get. But the reality is that we never get what we want. And these unavailable things start to accumulate in our minds as pain and these pains stay in our brain for a long time.
It is true and real that we never get everything we have. And we can never tolerate not getting this. So the pain comes and settles in our minds. In fact, we all know these things but the reality is that we never believe them. And many lost from the world because they could not bear the pain of not getting this.
Giving such a real example, I had a roommate that was pretty much intoxicated. But he is highly educated. One day I asked him the reason for his intoxication. He told me he had lost the caress of his mother and father as a child. His father left his mother and got married elsewhere and his mother lives in his grandfather's house and he has grown up in a hostel in the city since childhood. So this sad pain is always bothering him. That's why he's intoxicated. Because he could not bear the sorrows. Moreover, even when he has his parents, he behaves like an orphan.
Honestly we don’t get much in our lives. And these things that are not found come as pain in our life. And let's say we don't get anything, that is, if we don't get what we want more, then these pains become chronic.
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I am Md. Kawsar Hasan. I am Bangladeshi and proud to introduce myself as a Bangladeshi because I love my country so much. Because this is my motherland. I am engaged in the teaching profession. When I can teach my students something new, I have a different feeling. I also like to learn and do something new every day, I like to mingle with new people and like to learn something new. I always think of myself as a student of nature. Because we have a lot to learn from nature. I just try small to learn. I love to travel. A lot can be learned from nature through travel. Love to learn and write. I have been trying to write since I was a child and that is why I often fall behind in writing. I try to respect people. I think if you respect someone, your self-esteem does not decrease but increases.