Good day everyone i really love the prompt these week the topics are really wonderful.
Is true that teenage life is something we can not man-over by bypassing it's behaviors.
During teenage life is something that moves 70% of individuals and along the line some do fall into mistakes that they don't know how to solve because of not knowing who to run to especially when you have a parents that you are not use to.
In some cases our parents are the cause of our mistakes in life specially when it comes to sexual life ,our parents sometimes don't educate us on things about sex sometimes when we mention it before them they will do as if is an abomination without knowing that that is when they have the opportunity to teach a child sex education (Some parents sees sex education as a taboo) and ignoring sex education has led some people into mistakes that changed their future plans thereby destroying their future ambition.
Also some teenagers are been taught about all these things but they neglect it due to teenage lifestyle , friends and peer group in which the follow .these has led to so many destruction and distraction in life,even some joining bad gangs like robbery gang , smoking had drugs and even frustrated that they even go to the extent of committing suicide.
IF I HAPPENS TO BE A PARENTS OF A TEENAGE FEMALE AND SHE GOT IMPREGNATED WHILE SEEKING ADMISSIONS INTO THE UNIVERSITY.
I as a parent will not tolerate that because first i will avoid it by giving my child are proper home training both in sexual education or other things but I know in some cases there a circumstances that can cause it, like rape in these case I will seek for a professional advice from medical practitioner if abortion will be the option (but before the professional advice i will give her abortion as an option but if she decides to leave it no problem that her own decision).
But without rape if she genuinely and on her own becomes impregnated, is true that i will allow her later and forgive her because am not a devil but she will suffer small "all my training to her will not be in vein even to the extent of bringing shame to the house"
Even the guy that has the baby will suffer under my hand(police will be his second home after his father's house)
Although I will drag her but as her parent she is still my daughter,she will continue her education but she will be the one to decide if she will continue or not but when she decides the 60% of the billing will be from the guy that got her pregnant.
After the education two of them will now decide if they will marry or not.
Pregnancy is a good thing though sometimes it comes out of wedlock but we don't suppose to because of it throw our children out,all we need to do is make them know that the have done wrong and try to correct it on time before it is late.but some parents do throw their children out of the house but please that is not the best option because something might happen to them out there or the fall into danger.
And also dropping them out of school will not help it rather it will make them not to be educated thereby leading them into ingnorance of some things they need to know.