After a short while of taking a break from Steemit I started to miss all of you guys and all that Steemit brings to life.
Today, at a coffee with my mum, talking about life, relationships and personality in general my inspiration came and a title popped in my mind : "Would you love someone like you?"
Well, let us make a short intervention into your mind, soul and heart.
How do you see yourself? But with good and bad, the ups and downs the bad memories and beautiful ones too .. who are you? How are you? From what are you made of?
Most of the people will begin with " I am a good person .... ", no, we are sick of pointing only the right side of us, the handsome mask, bring out the worse in you then you decide how much "good" remains.
So, let us start over: "I am ..... "?
I will start first: I am stubborn, I will never forget a human being that hurt me or someone close to me, I am a box of memories, of frustrations but in the end, the good part is that I have them all arranged in a box of shiny crayons, and they sprinkle every time I have a deja-vu feeling, I keep them calm so they do not hurt me or someone else. This is my actual super-power.
What is yours?
Let`s say that you know it ... so ...
How would you live with someone just like you? With the same mistakes in life, with the same opinions, with the same kind of actions?
Could you do it?
I hear so much people saying: "We are the same!"
Yeahhhh right ... you have two hands and two feet, beside that nothing!
Not agree?
Let`s see again: have you grown in the same family? Have you got the same memories? The same gender? The same mother, father, friends, dreams, all that you have?
Probably you have a good connection, he or she starts a phrase and you finish it, or you like avocado and he/she like`s it too ... awesome, indeed, you are the same!
You are just so in loved right now! One of you tries to please the other more. Have you ever thought about if he / she really loves avocado or wanted to make a good impression?
This can be shocking, but not in a bad way of course, but try to remain focused, don`t loose your mind so fast.
I am talking about real love here ... real feelings, but we can talk the other part of the human kind, I call it the "cha-ching" - yep, exactly "the sound of a mechanical cash register when an amount is rung up" my friend Wikipedia says, a beautiful definition.
I will introduce to you some pictures to start from the scratch :
Women and men are the same these days? No my dear ones, they have a common objective: the "cha-ching"!
Nothing to blame, some of the people seek only the love some of them the money. Simple as that.
But there is some other kind of people, let`s see a picture first:
Yep, this typical person who is afraid to get out and seek what she wants. She has a perspective, she has wishes but something happen in the past that made her leashed to the house, to that comfort bubble.
Who?
Maybe her mother, her father, a friend from high-school, a first boyfriend, and to make a point here is another picture:
I know so many parents that say to their kids: "You cannot do that!" or other words similar to that ... if you came home with a bad grade she would talk like a boss and feel like she put the gun to your head. This is how much the education from home counts. It affects our entire life with no excusions.
We live in an age of :
Take a break, look into the mirror and be honest with yourself; "would you live the entire life with a person just like you?"
Sometime is hard to live by yourself, imagine how the other person feels living with you.
Develop what you still have good in you and die out what is bad ... it`s only for your own sake.
Thank you for reading, and hope these words find you in a balance state of mind.
Take care!
Source: Pinterest, Google and whatever .. I hope you get the main idea and do something good for you and your relationship, whichever it is.
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