Hello you beautiful readers! I always say ‘everything is fiction’ and I wasn’t joking. You might not know but Empaths are mysterious, they are super humans. Initially born in novels and movies, this idea has gained momentum as having its place in reality.
You’re not an alien, you’re an empath.
This discussion is a loaded one and I wrote this from my experiences and observations for no other purpose than for your self exploration, self discovery and to share real information.
So What Really Are Empaths?
Empaths are like sponges, they absorb the energy of everything they gain connection with. The experience of an Empath describes a situation where a person literally feels the emotions of someone else as if it were their own. They have the ability to feel the emotions of someone else or even an animal around them, particularly within their Auric field. This sounds more like some sci-fiction novel right? But the truth is,
EMPATHS ARE REAL.
As I have experiences with real empaths, my mom is absolutely one of them.
I love empaths so much even if they can be weird and scary sometimes, they have the most unusual and beautiful heart (besides not all of them are pure, there will always be a black sheep), from my experience it is rare to be an empath, very rare, it’s just such that is an unexplainable gift.
These people absorb other people’s emotions and in some cases even physical symptoms. They have the inborn ability to feel other people’s energy and emotions, even if they themselves are not going through the same situation!
My mom would literally be depressed if anyone around her was depressed, she would literally get angry if anyone around her was angry. I must confess, it is such that is beautifully scary.
And besides that, they have this sense of “knowing” and a very strong intuitive mind. Empaths seep through the world through their naturally developed intuitive mind and often don’t even understand ‘how’ but just seem to ‘know’ things. Their intuitive mind is extraordinary.
The Struggles of Empaths
The sacred gift of an empath is not something that can be turned off and on. And this is what brings in its dark side.
The struggle of empaths is Real, especially genuinely caring in a world that sadly don’t give a fuck. You get overburdened and used, you are constantly being drained by everyone around you and it makes you feel like an energy vampire.
You’re exposed the dark side of humans, the world is cruel and you’re easily exposed to the unbelievable heartlessness of humanity. (My mom hates to see the news, newspapers, even movies and sports haha)
Little wonder why my mom is always so tired and drained huh! Not because she is sleep deprived or something. She literally feels everything and it got me really worried and pissed, that’s what lead me to discovering this loaded world of an Empath. Then I stopped accessing her as someone who is crazy and abnormal. It was that ‘bad’ really.
My mom hates going to the mall as she says she feels nauseated and sick due to the large crowd of people feeling so many emotions. My mom would start feeling so angry for no reason, only to find out that my dad was getting more and more frustrated while working in some other room of the house. Honestly, on so many occasions I have to try as much as possible to hide and repress my emotions because of her.
However, way above their struggles, empaths are the true definition of empathy as they feel the weight of the world on their shoulders. They live a soulful life and they are born with a connection to a higher consciousness. Empaths are the people you can’t help but love.
I really hope an Empath is reading this!
If so please comment below.
The empath’s purpose in this reality is to aid healing in others, but due to their extreme sensitivity, they often struggle to recognize limits they shouldn’t exceed for their sake, giving in to martyrdom, victimhood, co-dependency, and chronic atruism, an empaths selflessness can be quite ridiculous sometimes.
As an empath facing off your truth is crucial for growth and mastery of your empathic intelligence. Not facing your truth, however, causes problems in life. There are really helpful guides and resources on dedicated websites for you to ensure a fruitful life and good management of your rare and sacred gift. Empaths please get this book!
The Narcissist Experience
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My favorite part of this article.
Haha narcissists yeah? One of the most complex human beings on earth, right. If you’re a narcissist and you’re reading this article, I assure you not to worry for you’re safe.
For those who don’t really know what narcissists are all about:
Narcissists are literal assholes.
Well not exactly literal but my very good friend ‘feargod’ (weird name huh) has to take on the glory of the literal asshole of the narcissist community.
Don’t forget assholes can be angelic. (you already know what I mean if you read the title of this article)
From my long observations and experiences. This my guy’s self-importance and selfishness is inflated. He has a low compassion, not particularly because he wants that but because he has lost touch with his feelings. This is exactly how all narcissists are.
The reason why I called him a literal asshole is because he criticizes A LOT and is a control freak. Well I talk to him all the time about this personality disorder and we are getting to a promising destination.
Narcissists are like black holes as they eat away at your feelings, physical health and stability. Keenly exploiting, manipulating and messing up your awareness and sensibilities.
Narcissists are out of touch with their feelings, for this reason they project their pain and suffering on others, especially empaths. This is mostly due to traumas, core wounds and all the different conditionings they might have experienced before or during childhood.
Who are angelic narcissists? What is the relationship between empaths and narcissists? - For there is a sacred relationship.
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