Enlightened wisdom believes that the question is more important than the answer. In other words, without the correct question being asked, you cannot ever get the correct answer. So asking the RIGHT questions to yourself is the most important thing you can do for your own personal growth.
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regardless of circumstances, this is a life where you don't follow your dreams; you keep chasing STUFF. You are the least important person in your life; everyone else is more important than you: your partner, your kids, your work, and your in-laws - all of this is more important than being authentic to yourself.
This is a life where you know the reason you are alive. You have a clear sense of what you want to do with your life. You are living authentically, not to fulfill others expectations of you. You are full of purpose, passion and a sense of completeness. You are engaged in work that you love, you share life with someone you love. When you wake up you know you're living your highest potential.
Tips-1:
Understand that you can only change what you have responsibility for. If you are not responsible for it, then you do not have the power to change it either.
So accept responsibility for yourself and creating your best life.
Make a commitment that you will live your best life. Accept that you have to make it happen - not your partner, your husband, your family. It's not your mother's responsibility! Others can help and guide you, but it is your job to walk this path. This also means that you STOP WAITING!
Tips-2:
Every day that we are alive, we invest. We invest our time, energy and effort in our children, our homes, business, our travels, our stocks & shares... but along the way we forget to invest in ourselves.
You are at the center of your whole life and everything you have created in it. So make sure the core is always well taken care of. Think about it - before your children came into your life, were you not there first? Who came before your home? You! Before the relationship? You!
You are the reason why everything else is in your life. Sometimes we lose sight of this powerful truth...
Tips-3:
Ask yourself this simple question - How much passion do you feel in life? Do you feel alive and on fire as you start your day? Are you excited to be at work? Do you feel that you are doing what you were born to do?
To live your BEST life, you must discover and release your passion - this is extremely beneficial for you and everyone around you too. You must look within yourself to find meaning and work that will light a fire inside you.
Tips-4:
Release and let go of all negativity, regardless of why it's there. There are always good reasons of why we feel anger, hatred, grudges or jealousy towards others, but no reason is good enough to keep on hurting yourself for. All negativity hurts you more than those around you.
Imagine that you are holding onto some heavyweights in your hands. And now you try to raise your hands higher to flap your wings to fly. You will find that the weight is really heavy and it holds you down. Blame, complaining, anger, grudges... these are all the weights that hold you down.
Interestingly, the more positive you become the more you see good opportunities - reasons to say thank you and be grateful. And the universe supports you more too.
Tips-5:
Treat yourself with love every day, not just on special occasions like birthdays and anniversaries. Don't wait for others to make you feel good either! Take the responsibility to make yourself feel good no matter what happens! Again, meditation training will be invaluable for this.
So every day of your life, remember that the most important person in your life is YOU!
If life was just one thing, then all people would be having the same experience of life. Yet some are happy, others unhappy. Some are full of gratitude, and others are full of complaints. The truth is that life is nothing without you. There would be no experience/ definition/ quality of life without you.