Abusive relationships, are common this days, and most ladies stay because they lower their standard to be with guy thinking there is no good guy out there and I pity some when they talk about their stories in relationships.

But if there is one thing certain about me, I will never lay a hands on woman because my dad never did to my mom till date same with every other families, I only hear of this from friends.

Personally i feel the mistake people do in abusive relationships is that they tend to stay think he will thinking change, but once an abuser always an abuser, except he or she makes personal decision not to act that way again it still be cautious there can change at anytime