During my younger days, I was very optimistic about my present future and age, that when I got to a certain age I would be extremely Okay and super-rich, I believed in myself and felt connected to the reality in mind, but growing up and seeing everything tough made me give up on a lot of dreams and live a normal life.
One of the things that really motivated me when I was young was how I saw my uncle and everyone living a very comfortable lifestyle with his friends, I wanted to be like him and have the same dream of being a criminal lawyer like him in other to make the cou try a better place and free from crime, little did I know that there was more to this and it takes a lot of focus and concentration.
The most realistic thing is that I barely remember most of my childhood dreams, although I believe I have achieved some of my childhood dreams, and I am still looking forward to achieving more. I am now a real Young man who admires the good things in life, just as I wished when I was young to have a good heart and to help people around me even though I still have a long way to go in life.
The realistic thing is that the older I grow, the bigger my dreams and visions keep on coming through my mind; especially when I broke up with my ex, my inspiration about life changed, and now I just want to be alone and be a better man for my self, people around me and also my family. The older we grow the bigger our perception and thought changes and improve for the better and greater good.
My Goal back then I still remember like it was yesterday was to Find a better love to be my wife and have kids and live happily ever after, but it ended up that I found love but she did not later end up being my wife, we all had different interest and grew up from different families, it's fine I said to myself, its part of my growth even though it really hurt back then a lot.
The Major of it all was that I dreamed of being super rich so that I could take care of my dad and mom without them having to work again forever, it felt like my major priority back then I was so focused on it, but I feel people and things around me cant encourage things like this I just have to force myself out of it in other to achieve this dreams. It is all about decision and desire.
I believe that Connection, networking, hard work, and focus can still help us achieve our dreams; we just must learn to adapt to the process and cut off every distraction that we feel may hold us down even though it is precious to us. I learned this the hard way, and I never want to ever make the same mistakes, which is why whatever I do, I give my full best with a focused mind.