To be honest, I have concluded in my mind that long-distance relationships can’t work out, because it will later turn to desturbance at a point in time. It took me time to realize this truth, that it never works out except if there is a bond agreement between both of you or there is a particular person or something that you have or have done that keeps on motivating you, but it all has an expiration date.
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Women often tend to get distracted during long distance relationships especially when she is beautiful and very open and friendly to everyone, within a short span, she begins to develop feelings for their other person and act like it nothing just a friendship talks.
One of the major reason why i said long distance relationship can never work is that women need someone that understands them and a man they have respect for. Understanding and respect is the key to a womans heart not love, love is the key to a mans heart. But we grew up using this word for both gender. Once you are distance from each other, you both understanding begins to depreciate and there is always another guy close by either as friends or anything that understands her at the moment, and gradually she begins to disrespect you within a short period of time before the expiration she lose intrest in you and then begin to focus on the other guy and several otber options available.
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Woman only tend to reason with what is present and not what is far away. Long distance can work, but there is an expiration date close by when it takes too long because it will really turn to a big desturbance later.
My experience with long distance relationships was really serious, i felt really down and emotional at that moment. The truth is men kind of can cope in a long distance relationship because once we fall in love with a lady distance can’t stop us from her but I don’t think a lady can survive in libg distance relationship because women crave for attention and when their attention values are not met with they start to behave anyway.
With my experience on ladies and women, it will be really hard for me to trust a lady not to even talk of long distance relationship, it never works out except there is an external motivation between both of you. Women love is physical once they stop Seeing you and there are many options at her door steps the emotions start reducing and she begins to lose feelings for you because there will always be another guy that understands the game better than you do.
Personally I believe Feelings fade when distance falls in, because there will always be someone else especially when you very beautiful or pretty. So I don’t believe in long distance relationships. I prefer my relationship presently and closeby not distance because it never worked for me well and we all learn from
Our mistakes.
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