Dirt on the mirror, gotta clean it first. Did so much, and applied many things yet the dirt isn't going away, it's the same as before. Cursing the mirror as a bad one, also on the cleaning products that are duplicate too, don't work well and after a certain amount of time I did realize that the dirt is not on the mirror, it is on my face. Just a little bit of water and it's all gone and there I was wasting my time on that leaving the actual one.
This is a usual situation, instead of starting the search from our end we often get stuck with the others. Keep blaming on and on whereas a little effort on us could have solved that pretty easily. Its like purification that should start from the cleaner itself and then spread out.
I often do my breakfast at an odd time, usually, my family does it around nine or ten am and I can never join them. On some days I do find myself having my breakfast around 1 pm. So if I wake up around those times and complain about why it is taking so long would be an injustice, I can't complain about my hunger. As I couldn't make it in time so the fault is mine and I must pay that penalty by waiting, that is the rush hour in the kitchen for lunch not for my breakfast, so my complaints would surely be absurd.
Numerous examples of such incidents like, why didn't anyone remind me about my class, venting out the outer frustration inside the home, my dirty clothes, messy room and the list goes on.
Actually, it is easy to pass the blame on others at the first hand, we always love to escape or see ourselves as immune. Barely try to admit fault or think like that, always try to cover them up by putting them on someone else's shoulder.
All it takes is one incident to realize them all, one that triggers all of its related ones to be checked in the future. A trigger that works as a chained connection for all, so it happened with me today, happens often with different things and I gotta work on them slowly but steadily. Can't afford to lose this realization because once it's lost and we are back in that illusion then it's hard to find that again.