Lots of people find it difficult to explain what friendship is all about. Sometimes it is even beyond one's imagination. I believe friends are someone who needs to be your closest partner and knows everything about you. Friends should be there on rainy and sunny days. I might not have a perfect destination for my friendship, but my explanations will.
I've gotten some friends, and I can boldly say they are my family. Because of what they had done for me. I mean, what is a friend without having good connections?
I remembered that I delivered a topic like this during my NYSC days. I talked about having a connection. And your friends today will be what your children will also connect with tomorrow. Now imagine not having good friends.
When it comes to selecting friends, I personally do not just select friends anyhow. Believe me, you must have something to offer. First, I find it so difficult to even talk to people or start calling them my friends. Because only a few people can go to any lengths for you.
Building a strong friendship with people is so important. Not just any people. There are some people who will do you harm, and they are also friends. That is why I said I'm always sensitive when it comes to selecting friends.
I was having a conversation yesterday with my colleagues in the city of Neoxian. And I remembered asking them what good your friend had done to you before. One said someone gave her half a thousand dollars when she needed help. And some talk about the good things their friends have offered, and they have offered too.
I personally have some experience with good friends. Before I got to Hive, someone just gave me Vickoly's number, who happened to be a total stranger to me then.
I was in another state when he taught me about Hive; fortunately for me, he came to the same state as I was. And we met in person. I left that state for another state for my service. And to cut a long story short, I'm now a neighbor of his.
Sometimes it's just like a miracle, because I don't believe we can live that close, and secondly, what he has done for me is something I cannot just forget. I mean, someone I just met online is now someone who has become important in my life.
As if that wasn't enough. We plan a lot of things together now. Well, he's not the only person I met on Hive who became a good person in my life. Sholex is also someone I respect a lot. This man also taught me about Hive. We met online and also met in person. I could remember meeting him as a person when he visited me on my birthday last year. The funniest past was when I was there in his state to serve my father's land, and I spent more than a year in that state.
Sholex did something I will never forget. He visited my passing-out parade a day before his wedding. I mean, who visits someone a day before your wedding? And the funniest part was that he was with me till I collected my certificate and still went out with me. He actually made my day on that day.
I could not help but say that. I've met lots of people on Hive that have made me grow in all aspects of life, even without meeting them physically. Sometimes I ask if I'm actually worthy of all these sacrifices.
I was busy telling some people yesterday about how much I can actually spend on some people who I met on Hive if they ask me about anything. They think I was joking, but I wasn't.
I know friend definitions cannot be pinned down to one definition. You just have to look for what will make you friends with someone. Believe me. Having good friends is something we need some time for. I believe we cannot have it all the time. There will be times when we are going to need help.
So yeah, the relationship you build today will speak for you tomorrow. So do well to build a good relationship with people, because you never can tell and believe me, karma is also real. Either you do good or bad,.
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