Dream # 1: "A friend from the past touches herself to an orgasm, and I am jealous!"
I am 28 years old. I had a dream that my friend (whom I have not been in contact with for ages) is pleasing herself sexually. And I hear her screams and it embarrasses me because I sleep in a close by bedroom with my partner. I am embarrassed because she is successful to reach an orgasm and I am not (in a dream). In the dream I am completely embarrassed by her screams. Because just before we heard her screaming, I was with lingerie and we started to...you know... and the screams simply embarrassed us and we stopped.
What does the dream mean?
This friend symbolizes, for me, characters of competition and vulgarity (we were good friends and split our ways because of these qualities). It is important to note that the competition has always come from her side. She used to tell me "You're a model for me but I want to be something better", so maybe it's clear why good friendship didn't develop between us.
t took me some time to see her real ugly face. In reality she is very jealous. She told me that right in my face! She's jealous of all the people around. That's why we moved away from her. She's flippant. I'd never want to be like her, not even in her good qualities like her openness. I am a person who opens up slowly and there is grace in it while she is too open to everyone (even one she just got to know), there is no way I envy/want to be like her.
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My Interpretation
The significant people in our lives almost always reflect parts of our souls. If we disapprove of someone, it indicates our self-judgment of parts within us who "want" to behave like the same person.
"The problem" is that in reality we impose a great deal of censorship on those parts of the soul who want to express themselves, and therefore we remove from our lives anyone who behaves contrary to what we seem to be "not good" or "wrong." We are very judgmental towards other people. Which is actually self-judgment.
Fortunately, we have our dreams. "There," the judging ego consciousness is inactive most of the time, and parts of the subconscious mind can float on the surface and present themselves. The orgasmic friend in your dream, therefore, is an expression of the mental part that makes up your total personality.
Questions such as why this part exists in you, what its function is, why it is expressed, are related to the circumstances of your life, which are unknown to me. I know that my words are said in a nutshell and I hope that they will evoke something in you. It is not for nothing that the dream preoccupies your thoughts - it serves as a milestone in your spiritual growth as a person and as a woman.
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Dream # 2: Two abortions
Hello, I am 25 years old, a student in her last year.
I do dream a lot and I remember most of my dreams. Yesterday I really hoped I would have an interesting dream at night so that finally I could ask someone knowledgeable, who really understands, about my dream. And indeed it was.
I dreamed that someone I knew from school had come to tell me that my friend was pregnant and was going to have an abortion. This friend, in reality, is someone I love, but in recent years our relationship has been quite cut off, mainly because of distance and studies and such.
Back to the dream. I go to that friend and talk to her about her going to have an abortion and she wants me to come with her. Then she tells me that she has already had one miscarriage and that this will be the second, and then we look at the map on the computer to see exactly where the clinic is, where she is going to have the abortion.
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My Interpretation
First of all, you can certainly be the person who understands your dreams and begins to interpret yourself. It's a process that will empower you as it progresses.
With regard to the dream - do you find any connection to your private reality?
Since the connection has been cut off with that friend (for years now), the dream seems to be talking about you. So, try to think what in your life may be associated with abortion (not necessarily physically, maybe it's a career change, a project at you had been involved in and now put it aside, etc.). Is there such a thing?
The only thing I can recall is my studies. I'm in the last year in school, it's pretty unclear what next year will be for me in terms of career, place of residence, etc. Is anything of them related to the dream?
Possibly. In my opinion, this is about releasing a certain pattern of behavior that you "carry" with you from childhood. A second miscarriage can represent two things:
The first - you have tried in the past to release the same pattern (a character, behavior, etc.).
The second - you have already released something from your past, from childhood, and now you are releasing something else. The dream, therefore, describes a natural development as a person. Mental maturation. To what circumstances it can be related? Only you can know
Thank you very much. Is there a chance that the abortion is related to the relationship I am in?
The possibilities are many. "Abortion" can be used to represent different contents depending on the circumstances of your life. That is why I said that you are the best interpreter of your dreams. If nothing can be associated at the moment then just let the dream go, take it out of your head, and then, during the day, an intuitive thought will pop up. The more we think and effort to find the interpretation so it eludes us.