It is now so wide, the results we've gained are not really what we've hoped and expected for, while we were growing as kids.
Well, it is without doubt that we still can have some individuals that what they've seeked for while they were growing up is already coming to an accomplishment or has even be accomplished and so also people whose dreams have totally changed producing results they've never thought about.
Speaking from my own bowl of life experience and process, I've got a lot of dreams I wanted to achieve that later remained the dreams they where.
Let me briefly highlight some few key points regarding dreams and achieving them
Nature is something so big that we can't really just exhaust, no body wants a struggling life all through, we are all striving towards a better ending but then, we get fed out with diverse results according to how the race turns out to be in our individual sides.
It is one thing to put effort towards achieving what we want and it is another thing if the effort can conquer the load ahead to achieving those dreams or not. Sometimes nature can decide to change and give you loads that your effort can't overcome and we will be left without option rather accepting the results of reality.
In regards to what I've established above, Karma is not excluded from the whole story of life, specially when it comes to dreams and achievements. You can't want to be rich early and all you do at home is to sleep and wake up and eat mummy's food and do nothing, Karma will give you extreme poverty. You can't want to be a doctor and don't want to go to school, lols, Karma can eventually turn you into a farmer sad but reality.
Karma simply means results from our actions, whether good or bad. Karma is just inevitable.
The whole picture am trying to portray here is that your efforts towards what you want to achieve really matters, bigger dreams goes with bigger pursuits. But nature can decide to increase our workload therefore causing us a different results. But it's better to put in some efforts so that the results can be better even if they're not what we're expecting, but they'll be better than the results we will get by not inputting any effort at all.
I wanted to be a doctor and right from my primary school I started working towards that, I've made out extra time for my books and to cut the long story short am studying biochemistry now in the tertiary institution. I wanted it in such a way that before my twenties I should be doing well financially, let's say counting hundreds of thousands atleast, but alot of things happened along the line and here we are still pushing, my source of strength went off and there was nothing I could do about it, well the good thing here is that I was able to accept all the challenges and trained my heart to enjoy every moment and everything that is happening now.
Things I enjoyed as an adult
I love the fact that I am independent now, I can dictate what's right for me and what's wrong for me. I am very happy that I wouldn't have to go and cry to mummy that someone is looking for my trouble, I solve most of those troubles and my problems myself. I am not disputing the fact that there are literally problems that still warrants me to share them with someone or I would still need help from some one, but it's never like before, there's better way of approaching Life race than before and if I could change anything I will bring back the source of strength and courage, maybe then all the life challenges will be much easier to face unlike now. But as it is, we move!!