First of all I thank God for giving me the opportunity to write these short lines thanks to 
"And Abel also brought of the firstlings of his flock,
of the fattest of them. And Jehovah looked forward to
Abel and his offering; but do not look fondly to Cain and to the
offering yours. It raged Cain greatly, and his countenance fell"
(Genesis 4:4-5)
Do you have noticed that the superhero (super man) lost validity? Clark Kent is that people want.
If what they are offering are attributes and results of super man, perhaps you can achieve to attract their attention. But it will never be able to maintain his affection. So you can already store your coat.
If you decide to be stoic, a super strong hero for your sons and daughters, you can impress them, but will not feel satisfied, your children would prefer rather caress them that prints them.
The style of strong, silent man is passing fashion some of our parents were so silent that they never told our mothers how much loved her... We were never told to us that loved us... Some were so strong that they never learned to express themselves perhaps accept the abuse and mistreatment.
If you you use the achievements and power, to replace the affection and the availability, are way you want to be considered as a "King by your spouse and in way of being like a robot without heart.
Machismo is dead. It is sensitive and loving, vulnerable and ready, man that is desired today. If what offer you the world is machismo, are offering a product that nobody wants. Including God.
Your machismo, set against the standards of Holiness, justice, and compassion of God, both impress God as impresses an elephant with a feather on his back. God is not impressed in the least by the fact of approach to him and ask him what? It is not impressed with your summary or fine costume and fashion. He doesn't impress are their alleged wrist watch or by that you can recite from memory the history of the Church. He is not impressed by your title or by your lineage and position only God responds to those men who are willing to prostrate themselves on his face in front of him fully deliver everything to him, and that may depend on fully of it.
Something amazing happens when we learn as blessing the Lord, how to pray, worship and exalt his name, got to be more willing and are better able to bless our couples and children. To give to God what he wants, we are best able to give to others what they truly need from us.
God accept the offering of Abel, because Abel offered to God what he wanted. are you willing to give God what he wants from you now, a humble heart, open, loving, and full of praise and worship?
BRIDALE TODAY GOD AN ACCEPTABLE OFFERING
OF PRAISE. THE RECEIVE AND ACCEPT YOUR SACRIFICE