ANGER is one of the most constant factor in the life of we humans, it is something we all can't separate ourself from even when we want to, it is glued to us at all times, we can neither get rid of it nor deny it, the best thing we can do is learn how to manage it and not letting it get the best out of us....
I have come learn how to embrace that ugly side of me as it is the only negative thing i got from my father, yeah i took after my father in the aspect of getting angry easily but one of the good thing i got from my mother is the ability to embrace who we are including the good and bad side and then we can learn how to manage the bad side and use it to our advantage.....
Funny enough my level of anger is twice that of my father but i have been managing it for years that now i see anger as an agent of destruction, it tends to destroy beautiful things including strong bond and long term relationship...
But we all have forgotten the rule of life which says when we have a problem, the solution is not far from where the problem is, we just need to play close attention to our environment and boom we find the solution...
Well well well, even when i get angry at almost everything, there is something that never changes, i never hold grudges and there are some people who have come to earn a very special place in my life that whatever i get angry at them it is just for a while and everything gets back to normal...
This type of anger is what we call MILD ANNOYANCE, this anger only happens when one is being pushed beyond limit and he or she is forced to get angry at someone they truly care about but when all is well, they forget it easily and move on letting go of past grudges...
I have some particular set of people that i share this mild annoyance with because i have come to hold them dear to my heart because they are a very good company and they contribute positivity into my life...
Funny enough i have them both off the blockchain and on the blockchain..
BOLANLE...
Bolanle is one of my closest female friend, she is the first person that embraced me with my anger issues in the past, she made me understand that getting angry is not a crime and it is something that can be managed and nursed, the only thing we need is having the wright person to help us manage it..
She made me understand with lot of difficulty including me getting angry at her but she never left me and there is one thing that happens whenever i get angry at her, immediately i burst out and calm down i go to her and make her smile even when she is at fault or when i am at fault..
I just can't get angry at her for too long because she is someone whom i hold dear and i have come to accept her whole heartedly because she is now a part of me and as my best female friend...
ISHMAEL..
This is my childhood friend, he and i have been going to the same school since childhood and we even graduated from the same high school and come to think of it famz, we are both guys and you can tell that we both would have had an encounter of exchanging fists not once, not twice, not thrice either but many times..
We fight almost every time and over the smallest of things like football, girls, even food but one thing is certain, we never let our disagreement or anger last for a day without reconciling and we reconcile when we are going home together and we stay in the same compound...
My friends that i have come to know closely on the blockchain and i can't tend to get angry at them for long even when we have little disagreements over something, funny enough they don't know it when i get angry but my mood and attitude changes towards them completely while chatting with them but after 1-3 hours i get better because i just care about them too much to be angry at them but when i get better i tell them but i let them know i don't hold grudges and i am sure it is the same with them too..
Those people are 
I have come to understand, learn and accept them and this is because they contribute positivity into my life including many more people on the blockchain and yes, i mean you that is reading this too, you are included in this too...
In conclusion, these are the people that i share mild annoyance with and some of them are so special that i can't even get angry at them not to talk of HOURS lolz....
THANK YOU FOR READING..