I love celebrating people's birthday, and also my birthday, in my little way, the deal is, when it comes to my birthday, i am not a fan of hosting big event, but as I could recalled, it was just few days ago that I celebrate my birthday, and it has come up again, and here is another 22nd of February.
I am sure you will not have to get confused of why some of my friends called me a lover boy, the idea all came from my birth month being February, but I do not see it that way, instead of me to see it as a month that makes me a lover boy, I see February as a month full of kindness, and strengthening of relationships.
Therefore, speaking of kindness as something I see in February, have i been kind to myself? For me to say a thing fully here, i will go on that, I have been kind to myself, because I need to have this characters, so that it will have an effect on my environment in the best way.
I am kind to myself because I take things with ease, I don't let the things I want to disturb me much, whatever it might be, I let it slide once I have realized that I have tried, then used the time to plan it again, on the next way I should go with it.
And, on this my birthday, just as I used to do in other day's, I will not think of the things I can't get, instead, i am counting my blessings, and then be ready to count more.
From the times of writing this post, there are messages coming to my phone, I am grateful about it, that my friend's and family wish me a happy birthday.
I had a conversation with my friend few days ago, and he was saying something about today, his message was about, "what i need for my birthday" and I do not remember anyone telling me that it was good to make demands on our birthday, even our wishes, I think it should be known to us alone, so I hardly make demands on my birthday's, as i do not think it's good to make choice's, i allowed them to decide.
To be frank, I overlooked the part of the message where he was asking of what I want, I felt he wanted to surprise me with a gift, but I have to let him chose, and that was how we say something else, because that vibes was not sounding very good to me. I mean there is no reason to bargain on a day like this, but we should let the energy flow freely.
I love foods, and I am eating that favorite meal today, that is something I know that even if I forget to do others, I will not forget to do it, infact, today, i will be eating many things.
I am grateful for being a year older today, yeeeaaah...... cheers.
Image's are mine.