Dear smart esteemian and steemian where ever you are. I always pray that all thing about you is going on well. Welcome again in my blog 
Complaining is a very easy thing to do and for some people this has become a habit. If you are a complaining person, then know that the habit of complaining will not make your situation better, it will only drain your energy and create negative feelings that do not empower you.
Try asking yourself if, if you had two friends, the first always said positive words and the second always complained, which would you prefer to relate to? I am sure your answer is your first friend, because basically everyone likes to connect with positive people whose words build, entertain, strengthen.
The question is why do we often complain? We complain because we are disappointed that the reality that happened is not in accordance with our expectations or desires. And you need to realize that this will happen almost every day in life, that is, the reality that happens often does not match what we want. So how to overcome it is actually easy, we just need to learn to be grateful in all the conditions we face.
Start taking time to be grateful every day. Be thankful for your work, your health, your family or anything you can be grateful for. Be thankful more and believe your life will be easier and luck will always be with you, because you can see things that might have been out of your sight all this time because you were too busy complaining.
If the more we are grateful for what we have, the more things we will have to be grateful for. This means that the more we complain about the problem you are experiencing, so don't be surprised if it feels more and more problems that we experience to complain about.
Don't complain if you face difficulties but do the following. Cover your eyes, take a deep breath, hold for a while and then exhale slowly from your mouth, open your eyes, smile and think that someday you will be grateful for everything that happens at this time. Get used to not participating in complaining if you are with friends who are complaining, try to give a positive response or not at all.
Always think positively and develop a grateful attitude and see changes in your life.
That is all from me to you
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Lhokseumawe, April, 04 2019
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