I think it is not right to give space to some people in life. Many people may ask me why after hearing me, to be honest, I have not had less life experience at this young age. I have not heard of fewer people at this young age. I have received neglect from many people. The only reason for neglect is that trust is a very small word. However, this word can destroy your life. This word can take your life to a very good position. And this word can make you a helpless street person. Now of course you understand why I said at first that it is not right to give space to some people in life.
I will tell you some more details, then maybe the matter will be much clearer to you. Our life is very short, isn't it? In this short life, we share everything we like and dislike with our loved ones. But everyone is given the dignity of your trust. You must give the answer to the question in the comment box. I know there are some people with whom you trust and they like to keep those words to themselves, these are your real friends. And there are some people when you share your dislikes with them, they get up to hit your weak point, which is your weak point.
Do you not believe me? I am discussing some more things in detail with you, so maybe my words will become completely clear to you. I am sharing some things about the life of a friend who is with me, but for personal reasons I am keeping his identity a secret. We have known each other since childhood, you can say that his house is right next to ours since school days, but now that he is married, he lives more at his in-laws' house. When he was in class nine, he got into a relationship with a boy. Their relationship was like this. The girl was so crazy about the boy. The girl was willing to do everything for the boy. But at the end of the day, their relationship did not last. The main reason was trust. The girl who trusted the boy and entrusted everything in her life to him, the boy betrayed her.
I may have heard from many that girls cheat, but in some cases, boys also cheat. It was surprising to think that I found proof of this. But even then, I had to believe that the girl loved the boy so much. The boy did what the girl said. In the end, when the girl was told, "Bring me all the money your father has, I want to do something good." When I reach a good position, I will definitely take you as my wife. These were actually lies, but the girl believed the boy. She gave the boy about 7 lakh taka that her father had saved. The boy went abroad with the money. It has been almost ten years now and he has not returned home yet.
As soon as he went abroad, he stopped communicating with the girl. First of all, the girl was so broken. Sometimes when I talked to her, it felt like every breath she took was cursing someone. You know what? You make another person cry. You try to be good, but will you really be good? Your creator will take the price of every tear that falls from that person's eyes. What will you do? After that, she was persuaded a lot. At first, she did not agree. She tried to commit suicide many times. But finally, she agreed. Her father was very angry with her at first, but everyone tried to convince her. He realized that his daughter had gone in a very bad way. However, she got married four years ago. Alhamdulillah, she is still in a good position. Her husband loves her very much. And the boy who went abroad with the money is not doing well now. There are many problems in his family.
Despite repeated attempts, he is unable to return to the country because his family is facing various problems. He has been living abroad for almost 10 years now. I have learned one thing from this experience that you can never be happy by taking away someone's happiness. Also, the friend who sits in the prayer room every day and cries must be held accountable for his tears. Yesterday, when I talked to him, he said with a sigh, "I may never be able to forget him, but I can always pretend to forget him." From his words, I understood how much he still loves the boy, but instead of forgetting the boy who betrayed him, he is still praying to Allah for him to be well.
These experiences teach us a lot. These experiences teach us that if you can't trust someone, don't play the game of trust with them. Someday you will have to give an account of it. Maybe you will try to be a little better with time, but how good you will be. I don't know for sure how long I will be good or what I will do, but I always believe in one thing. If someone shares their secrets with me, they remain secret because that person has trusted me and shared his feelings. I try to respect his trust. I try to always keep those words in my heart because I feel that if I play with his trust, some day another person will play with mine.
This is not actually revenge, it is a game of nature. Whatever you do to nature, nature will give you back exactly twice as much. If you don't believe me, then observe some events in your life and you will understand how nature actually gives us back. We try to be good by harming others, but at the end of the day, we can't be good. No matter how much money we earn, no matter how much we try to be good, at the end of the day we can't be good. We always have problems in some way or the other, maybe family problems, mental problems, or problems with loved ones. This is natural. Nature will give you back exactly as much as you took from someone else. So don't hurt anyone. Don't play with someone's trust. If you can keep other people's trust secret, if you can keep other people's trust, you will see that you can also be good.
If you can maintain the trust of others, you will find peace within yourself, just as that person can also be better because of sharing his secret with you. Have you ever thought about how much trust and confidence that person has if you share his secret with him? I know you have never thought about it, but you will definitely think about it and you will find your own answer. Stop playing with trust. Trust is not a puppet game. When you play it as you wish, and when you throw it away as you wish, there are some things and stories associated with a person's life. Everyone has some history in their life. Some are good and some are bad. But never laugh at someone's bad side. I, you and I do not know when you have to stand up at any moment in life.