From a very young age, we are taught a lot of things I need to say to a new child as they are learning their first you concert and those are the concepts that are going to define the way we understand the world in a lot of ways because they are going to have really deep meaning for us and often can be the way we are going to be defining the important aspects of life as well because there are a lot of things that we have been told which we later on realize were not true and turned out to be just myths.
When we grow older and gain more knowledge often we happen to perceive ourselves in a much different way and the potential to have that particular ability in which we can be having the thought about a particular aspect of a simple statement that we were told in childhood and often label it as something that was not true is something that happened to be existing in the lives of almost everything will person because Understand They can be useful for them at that particular point of time.
Mostly there is nothing wrong or ride in doing so at a young age because it can be quite useful to make people understand those things at such an age but after time they tend to be useless or can be misleading as well and may also be a reason why we misunderstand a lot of concepts and life as well but at the same time once we grow up we start to understand a lot of things that we never used to understand at a young age and that is what maturity does as well and today we are going to be talking about those particular a few myths as well.
One of the biggest myths that I believe is going to be the thing that we were told in childhood which is often meant to be some things such as hard work always going to be guaranteeing success. It is something that I used to believe quite a lot and very strongly at a young age of my life because it was something that was told very often but not just a single person but a really big amount of people used to say the same thing and therefore I started to believe it to be a fact.
But as I grew up and saw a lot more about life there were a lot of things that got clear to me that were not clear at that age because after seeing a lot of people as well as real-life experiences it got clear that hard work alone is not going to be getting me anywhere and it is something that is always going to be a factor that needs to be combined with a lot of other things you're noted to be getting successful in whatever field we are putting our efforts in.
As children, we were always told that we need to study hard as well as also give enough effort as well, and work hard to achieve our dreams and fulfill whatever we want to be doing regardless of whatever thing we do we need to work to make that particular effort a success in the end and that is going to be very crucial to be making sure that we are getting to that particular point where we want to be.
But after a few years, I realized the real factor is that success is not going to be defined by Just hard work it is a combination of a lot of factors including luck timing opportunities connections, as well and even socioeconomic backgrounds, which are very crucial to be making sure that we are going to be successful in whatever field will find ourselves in or even a smallest of task is going to be defined by a lot of factors which is going to be a thing that is needed to be understood by each one of us.
Even the best efforts that we can provide in a particular task can not guarantee success as it is going to be driven by a lot of other factors as well and just hard work is not going to be guaranteeing the outcome that we are looking for and this is a particular narrative that we need to change or at least realize at the earliest we can.
It can be very frustrating often because we are giving in the best efforts from our side and doing the hard work that we were told from childhood to do and not getting the results as intended is something that is going to be a very big cause of depression as well as frustration because in the end, we are not getting the thing that we wanted but we are doing what we were told do and that is something which is a possible source of anger which is what we need to realize at a really good space of time and stunt working accordingly rather than just relying upon hard work.
Learning to accept that there are a lot of external factors rather than having to be just working hard is something that can prove to be a game changer in the end because that is something that a lot of people don't focus on and that is a reason why they keep on believing that hard work is the only key to success whereas it is not and it already proves one a lot of time and many people who are successful right now have also said the same.
All in all, it is something that is going to be seen in your own life as well once you realize and start to do things accordingly and after that, it is going to be a much clearer picture for you of what is needed to be done to get successful rather than just staying on the path of doing hard work and just like this there are lot of other myths that we have been told since childhood which we need to understand and bust than to reality and make sure that we have the clear picture of what it is rather than just believing something which we were told at a young age
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