I find it appalling when I see people post pictures of themselves and tag it self-love. You might say it's not my business, oh yes! but the truth has to be told at least for posterity's sake.
Do we truly love ourselves? or we are just living in a fool's paradise. Possibly a social media trend.
Let me tell you why I think you don't love yourself beyond posting pictures of yourself on social media.
If you love yourself as you clam you will stop comparing yourself with others.
If you love yourself you will forgive yourself after that episode and move on rather than holding back.
If you love yourself, you will take up that course to develop and grow yourself in every way you can.
If you love yourself, you will fight to quit that habit that is destroying you slowly.
If you love yourself like you make us believe, you will quit that abusive relationship that is draining you.
Your face was recently battered and you're still there in the name of I still love him. That's how much you love yourself abi?
If you love yourself, you will truly accept who you are than trying to be another.
Yes, I remember they told you to fake it till you make it, those who told you have not made it themselves.
If you love yourself, you will stop forcing people to like you.
If you love yourself, you will trust God for everything than putting your trust in men. They have failed you countless times but you won't learn.
If you love yourself, you will protect your mental health by minding who and what you listen to. They told you to do what makes you happy but didn't tell you that not everything that makes you happy is good for you.
Do you still love yourself abi?
If you truly love yourself, you will not eat the way you do as if there's no tomorrow.
If you love yourself you won't settle for less because of what people will say or think.
If you love yourself, you will do try to be on everyone's good books at the expense of your sanity.
If you love yourself, you won't sleep with him before marriage, how many will you lay with before you marry them? This one is still self-love abi?
If you love yourself, you will give your life to Christ asap without thinking twice. The people who are dead, are you better than them?
Should I continue or I should mind business?
My point is, you don't truly love yourself as you claim if you still don't do the right things in your life.
You're doing yourself harm than good if your daily actions and decisions are not in agreement with the true definition of love for yourself.