At the moment some men think pregnant women are sexy, many also say the most vulnerable husband cheating when pregnant wife. Is this just a myth rooted in a sense of insecure in the heart or is there a medical explanation?
Really husband susceptible affair when pregnant wife?
Scott Haltzman, MD, assistant professor of psychiatry at Brown University Medical School confirmed that improper pregnancy and then make the husband more interested in glancing at other women. No research or medical theory can prove that men are most vulnerable to having an affair when their wife is pregnant.
Even so, all kinds of physical changes, psychological, and behavior experienced by women during pregnancy are also felt by the husband. These changes can make him feel "double-summed".
The simplest example is the time and attention of the wife who is almost most devoted to maintain its content. This is natural because it has become a mother's instinct to as much as possible to keep her body healthy while pregnant for the health of her future and future children.
On the other hand, shifting the focus of attention of this wife can trigger jealousy in the husband because he feels neglected. Many men are afraid that when the baby is born, his wife is really not in love with them anymore. For example, you want to invite a wife to date a favorite place together, but she chooses to take a rest at home for fear of exhaustion. You may also spend more time eating alone, or even eating outdoors, because wives become more rarely cook during pregnancy.
In addition to the emotional needs, he may also feel that his sexual needs abandoned. Many husbands claim that they rarely have sex during pregnant women because of the declining sex drive of their wives. The wife may also think that should not have sex during pregnancy because it can hurt the baby. In addition, the feeling of not feeling confident because it feels fat and unattractive may haunt some wives to have sex.
However, Haltzman once again confirms that all the changes that occur in the lives of women and men during pregnancy are inappropriate and can not serve as justification reasons for an affair.
Husbands and wives must both understand each other
To avoid conflict and jealousy, both husband and wife must both understand each other and care about each other's condition.
You need to change the way you think and look at things. All the physical, behavioral, and emotional changes that a wife undergoes during pregnancy are natural and only temporary. You can show concern to the wife by getting more involved in her pregnancy affairs. For example, by taking him with a massage, shopping for baby clothes, discussing choosing baby names, accompanying pregnancy wife's wife, or even departing babymoon.
Wives, also make sure to the couple that he is still your priority even more pregnant. Encourage and support your husband to become a SIAGA husband and be a great father. At the same time, seek understanding from him that any changes that you are experiencing today may make you uncomfortable with your own body. If you do not want to have sex, you both can still make out with hugging, kissing, or kelonan.
Indirectly, jealousy is related to the commitment you've made since you first established a relationship first. If you are sure that he loves you wholeheartedly (so are you), what else to question?