Broad insight is very important for human beings as social beings, either to communicate or to strengthen an argument in opinion. In addition, a broad insight is also needed in public speaking. Yet many people do not yet have extensive insights, and it is important to know how to sharpen insight and knowledge.
Family is always a priority and the main thing in one's life. Especially in Indonesia that highly uphold the norms, morality, and customs of the east, which makes the family is very important and above all things. And because this family is so important, then someone is always looking for happiness for his family.
Happiness in the family will always be sought. Because with a happy family, a person or a couple will be happy too. Family happiness is always correlated with happiness. But to gain this happiness requires a struggle and hard work. This happiness is not easy to achieve. Therefore, if you are one who really wants to have a happy family, you can not help but need to know and understand some secrets to make family life so happy.
The first secret to reaching a happy family is to create a sense of comfort with each other. Comfort is the basic thing that every human being needs. So, the more comfortable people in running their lives the greater the level of happiness that will be obtained. Similarly, in the family, the more comfortable family members in the house, the higher the happiness rate achieved. This is the most recognizable indicator or sign of happiness. So if you recognize or know any of the uncomfortable family members at home, you should be vigilant, because it could be that happiness in your family is in trouble.
If your family members (spouse or children) like to exchange stories to you, then it's a sign of family happiness has begun to create. But if family members (spouse or children) do not like to tell you, then you should be vigilant, because it could be your family happiness is being threatened. Especially children who often cover the problem to their parents. If you find children who like to cover their problems, you must be vigilant, you should try to approach them and invite them to talk from heart to heart.
Approach them wholeheartedly, do not scare them out because of your anger. Usually the facts on the ground prove that the children are scolded with a loud, then he will be more threatened and closed to you. So to get the kids open and willing to exchange stories to you, then you have to approach them with your heart. You must start always approaching your children. Do not keep your distance too far if you want your kids to want to always exchange stories with you.
The presence of the child sometimes makes a couple's marriage happiness and then decreased. Actually this is not appropriate if the presence of children then make happiness between couples so reduced. Although it can not be denied the happiness of couples, especially the wife with the presence of children, but you should happily marriage and your partner does not decrease. Giving time to children is good, but do not forget to always provide a special time to spend both with a partner if you want to achieve true family happiness.
If you have children, make an agenda a month to get your kids to play together. You can take your kids to play indoors or outdoors. If you have enough time, make this activity every day. Why is this joint play so important? This is because by playing together with family members, you will be able to improve your relationship and your inner bond with family members. By taking time to play together, you will also open up opportunities to get the attention and good communication from children.
After marriage and marriage, which one do you need to prioritize, friends or family? If you want to get happiness in the family then you will inevitably have to prioritize and put the family in the first position. After marriage especially if you have children, you really can not help having to divide your time is greater in the family. But if you are still too focused on friends, then you will be hard to get family happiness. What if the friends then leave us when more priority to family time? You also do not have to worry if your friends will be left behind, because this will never happen, because your friends already know if you really should give priority to family time.