I can relate so well to spme part of your story.
I'm also a type of person that loves her space but unfortunately i couldn't get an apartment close to my school during my first year. So i stayed in the school hostel.

I can't wear new clothes without washing them. Ahhh never, in my head i will imagine a lot of things that can go wrong.😂😂

And this is so me; i will rearrange my space over and over again. My roommates will ask me if i don't get tired but honestly i don't.☺️

But your neighbourhood didn't go easy on you the welcome was harsh. Loosing your solar lamp and clothes in less than a day that's too harsh.
😂😂 Sorry about that experience i can imagine the shock on your face when you couldn't find them. Everywhere definitely went blur.😂😂