My first Love Hate relationship!
This has been amongst the first few relationships I have had.
I have had several relationships with people like everyone :). But here I am talking about my relationship with change !
When change would come into my life the following used to be my response in this order
- I resisted it badly-I felt stuck and helpless
- Slowly I started to accept it
- Then I started liking it
- Then I loved it
- Then it was boring again -I felt stuck
- I started disliking being there
- I hated it but I did not want to change again - I felt stuck again
I have seen some people responding like this to change
- I love it
- Then it starts to get boring again
- Before I hate it I start loving something else again
Obviously as you can see I had a problem letting go. Hence I was feeling stuck most of the time. I have improved but still feel stuck at times!
Are you feeling stuck? Why?
What is your relationship with change?