I am a mess, and tonight she finally called and is pissed the coroner after not being able to get a hold of her for 13 days released the baby for me to sign off on his arrangements, I didn't know what to do. What I didn't say earlier because I was processing, the coroner said if the baby was left for too long without being claimed they would cremate him in a mass cremation with others who had not been claimed. I had no clue that was done, it left me horrified. I wasn't about to leave him unclaimed after that. We got into an argument and I ended hanging up on her after she turned verbally abusive. This is a mess.