Body language These movements are carried out by some individuals using their hands or expressions of the face or feet or the tone of their voice or shake the shoulder or head, to understand the communicator better information that wants to reach him and there are some cautious and more careful people and those who can install facial features and those who do not They want to disclose what is inside them, but they can also know their impressions through other means :
In a study conducted by a psychologists discovered that only 7% of communication is in words and 38% tone of voice and 55% body language, even if different words and body language, the individual tends to believe the body language Although the use of body language over Millions of years of the history of human young people, but the manifestations of non-verbal communication has not been studied in practice on any scale only since the sixties of the last century, especially when the publication of Julius Fast his book on body language in 1970.
Technically, the book "Expression of Emotions in Man 1872" is one of the most influential books in this field. It has been followed by many recent studies of facial expressions and body language, and many of his ideas have been supported and proven. In one of his studies, Albert Mehrabian concluded that the total effect of the message is divided into (7% words only, 38% vocal, 55% nonverbal). Professor Breed Hoessel made some similar estimates and concluded that the average person talks words about ten minutes per day and that the average sentence takes about two and a half. Most researchers agree that the oral channel is used primarily for transmitting information, while the non-verbal channel is used to negotiate interpersonal situations, and in some cases as an alternative to oral messages.
uses :
Used by all people voluntarily or involuntarily, the teacher uses this method in the classroom to help him to transfer information to students as well as used by the doctor to the patient or patient to the doctor. It's also used by the engineer when he wants to give instructions to the workers. It is used by the president for his subordinates or employer for his employees. House bound person and hearing impaired persons can understand it.
Women are generally more aware of men and able to read body language. Women have the innate ability to capture and decode nonverbal signals, as well as to have a minute eye that monitors small details. Few men have the ability to lie to their wives, while most women can About men without realizing it. Scientists believe that this distinctive ability may be the result of the social role of women, which encourages them to be sensitive to the emotions of others and express their feelings clearly, and may manifest this sense of women clearly in the mothers because they rely on non-verbal channels while communicating with children. It is believed that because of this characteristic capacity, most women can negotiate (especially physical and economic) better than men.
Means :
Al Ain: It gives you one of the biggest keys to a personality that realizes what is going on in your mind. If the pupil expands and becomes apparent, it indicates that he has just heard something happier. If the pupil is narrowed, the opposite is what happened. More or rubbing them may indicate that you have talked about something you do not believe.
Or if he tries to avoid looking into the eyes of people around him, it indicates that he lost confidence in himself not always avoid looking at people's eyes sometimes indicates shyness or is trying to withdraw in the ongoing dialogue
Browbones: If one raises one eyebrow, it indicates that you said something to him either he does not believe it or see it impossible, either lifting both eyebrows, that indicates surprise.
The ears: If he rubs his nose or runs his hands over his ears and pulls them out while he tells you he understands what you want he means that he is puzzled by what you say and he probably does not know what he wants him to do or he doubts what you are saying.
The person's forehead: If you bend his forehead and look at the ground in a frown, it means that he is puzzled or confused or that he does not like to hear what you said, but if you bend his forehead and raise it to the top, it shows his surprise at what he heard from you.
Shoulders: When a person shakes his shoulder, he means he does not know or knows what you are talking about.
Fingers: A person tapping his or her fingers on the seat arm or on the desk indicates nervousness or impatience.
Nose: When the adult touches his nose when he speaks, it is evidence that he is lying in the talk he says.
Mouth: When a child lies on his parents, he hits his hands on his mouth in a reference to hide what he said about his parents, and when the teenager lies, he touches or rubs his mouth lightly.
Pedestrian: It has been known by careful observation that the feet of a person always tends to the subject of thinking, for example, a student who is rebuked in front of peers of his teacher usually refers to his feet to the seat or in the worst conditions out of the classroom. Or the guest who does not want to enter, and indicates his position and the direction of his feet for his desire to leave.
Another important means is to use the geography of the place. The trustworthy master is usually his office at the front of the entrance, and the person who drives his car follows her door, but the riffraff rolls in place. Tariq, leaning on the wall, often scoffs at the place. Then there is the view from above the glasses that show the diminution and diminish the importance of the other.
Examples
When a person ties his arms to his chest: this may mean that this person is trying to isolate himself from others or indicates that he is not sure of himself.
When rubbed his hands with each other, this shows the wait. If he puts his hands on his cheek, it is a sign of meditation.
If the person sits on top of each other and moves them constantly, this indicates that he is bored .
If you are talking to someone and you want to finish with him, giving him the best evidence of that.
Tackling one's head while talking means that he is thinking about something or trying to remember it.
When one person grabs one hand behind the other, it is a sign of nervousness and fear of dislocation.
When a person hides his or her mouth, it is conclusive evidence that he thinks he hears lies.
If a person sits on his feet and knees, this is a sign of tension .
Drain imaginary sweat or pick up breath
Very important, and there is what prevents or boycotts.
The shoulders shook the sign of indifference
The wink of the eye is the sign of courting
Clicking with the fingers is a sign of boredom
Beating on the forehead because of forgetfulness
Grab the arms to protect it
Raising the eyebrow is a sign of disbelief