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We all know that bad habits are always better left alone than you pick them up.
But still, sometimes we don't know what we are doing. So then it happens, and we try too hard to stop it that we fail to do it.
I am worried not because I don't try hard enough. But because it is just too hard to stop what we are doing and replace those habits with good ones. Trying too hard never works. Trust me.
It's not that we don't want to do it. It's just too hard.
That's why in the first place, if you are just starting your life as a young kid, you better not pick up any habits that will destroy you.
We should mix with the right crowd and not get ourselves in trouble. Yet, sometimes life just happens, and we can't deal with it.
We should learn how to change our bad habits to good ones. Replace the bad with the good. All is good on paper. But when executing it, it is as tough as ever.
For me, I met my wife, and my worst habit just disappeared.
Maybe it's because I was lonely. Perhaps it's because I just didn't fill my time well. I don't know.
But thank God I found my wife. I've been struggling to stop my bad habit for as long as I can remember. I got apps to help me do it. I tried dealing with God too. That failed miserably.
Now, I am free and pray you will not put yourself through what I put myself through.