A know that I am approaching you with this. I am not saying that you are pushing at me.

Your post seemed like a question and I know what it is like to be accosted by the faithful.

I agree with your some of your opinions in your last statement

Jesus was a person with revolutionary ideas who did change the world.
Many folks are better off as Christians and many folk are better off for the actions of Christians including many non Christians. Christians make life better for me in some ways. Your philosophies make people do things that they might not do without Christianity. Some of those things are important to society. I know you and your faith are important and world changing and I admire you for your leadership in the cause.

I feel the way some folks proselytize is undesirable.

I approached you to see what people like yourself think. I agree with some of it and you have made me think more about what good your faith does.

my point in all of this is that you might try a more passive approach with more understanding for resistance.

I hope you don't feel disrespected, I think a person who tries to help is the one most worthy of respect.