This is in my humble opinion:
(and please feel free to take what resonates and leave what doesn't)
Also. I understand the delicate nature of this, but I'm speaking in more "clinical" terms than emotional, please don't think I'm trying to be insensitive. ♡
First, as the time approaches and the veil thins, she will start to talk about seeing angels and people already across the veil.
Next, when the physical body dies, it starts to release/dissolve the erethral thread/tie/rope that bound the soul to the body.
That might be what is refereed to by 3 days? (?!?) 0_o
But being used to the gravity of being in a body, you may be confused and think of this new state as a dream.
This is where several things might happen.
you see the light, and immeaditly hear the beckoning of the angels and loved ones across the veil, and you go straight to it. =Heaven
In your confusion, you may not be ready to go to the light (for whatever reason)
A: then you may repeat patterns you knew in your lifetime (this is why we see "ghosts/spirits" in a repeated pattern at the same spots.
B: then you may go check in with loved ones (this is usually when people "see" you or get the impending feeling of doom something happened to you)
C: just continue as if in a dream state with no limits.
= what people refer to as lost souls or un able to cross.
- YOU panic at the moment of death, because you think you were somehow unworthy of your life, this is now your own personal hell, =purgatory
If #1....
If you are able to step into the light and head toward heaven, then you get a replay of your life, you see you faults and your accomplishments, to check off life experiences completed and start to put together your next trip, or, if all your experiences have been completed, then you rejoin the source.
If #2 applies,
Which does at least for a little bit time, in almost ALL cases btw, its usually just a matter of how long....
All of #2's can be asked/told/urged to go into the light by loved ones, and as I mentioned is usually just a matter of time, they are not always stuck, or earth bound. Most spirits, in my experience, stay on this side of the veil from 7 to 14 to 21 days.
Idk why but spirit world likes 7s.
They like to sticknaround and make sure loved ones are okay with everything, they love to be at their own funerals, once the shock fades, and they get comfortable with being a higher vibration, limitless, formless, they get another opportunity to see the light and take the light back as I stated in #1.
If #3:
This is where it gets tricky...
This answer depends a lot on what faith or religion or spirituality u hold to be true.
So this is what I hold to be true, if any disagree, fine, but I don't wish to argue anything.
Think: What Dreams May Come...
I feel there is no hell except what you make in your own mind.
I believe that you are here to EXPERIENCE every single facet of human emotion throughout the path of ones soul in various lifetimes.
Everyone will be the rapist, everyone will be the victim.
Everyone will be a murderer, everyone will be a homicide.
Everyone will be a bulimic,
Everyone will be a gluttonous pig.
Everyone will be rich
Everyone will be destitute.
EVERY SINGLE FACET OF HUMAN EMOTION WILL BE EXPERIENCED.
So.... evil and pain and strife is a necessity in the greater picture. We need to understand that. And that's a HUGE PILL for some to swallow.
Imho, from everything I've been shown, have learned, Every soul will reincarnate several times. The point of life from a soul level is to experience EVERY facet of the human experience. Throughout our lifetimes we will be a murderer and the victim, the rapist and the raped, the rich and glamorous, and also the severely destitute. The morbidly obese, and the bulimic. This happens to help evolve our soul. They are all lessons. I can hear now, why/how did my child deserve to die, (for example by drunk.driver)?!?!After your child passed, did you not become the chapter head of your local "against drunk driving"?! How many people have had laws put into effect because someone they loved died? Or brought new awareness to diseases, contiotions, etc.? There are RARELY TRUELY evil souls out there. Its hard for us on this side of the veil to see the "plan" .but there's a place for EVERYTHING under the sun, even.things that we dont like.that hurt our human minds, bodies. It's a testament to how evolved you are, wether you can accept this information. Cause ourhuman.minds.want.tobe outraged, to make.someone PAY. We want to have revenge, to know that person went to hell. But that's not the way it works.
Heres my best analogy:
Its like your SOUL is Tom Cruise. Every movie he makes is a different incarnation, a complete life he has lead. So when the soul splits from the energy of the one, ie "God" Its like a young actor moving to L.A. At that time he is given 12 pieces of paper. God/the Director says give me an outline of what you want to do. So every paper starts with the zodiac signs (cause u live one in each lifetime) and then you pick out the "theme/plot" of the "movie" (for example, u want to be super rich, and u want to use that $ to help people) Then you ask a.few souls to incarnate n play roles WITH you, who want to gain experience points with you, help you make a reaally good "movie". Then you incarnate and follow the outline. Its not an exact script, its still free will. But say when you were planning you said u wanted to also experience eventhough you were rich and.others relied on your generosity, that u wanted to be able tohave other people return the favor and have to learn to be generous to you. That could mean u get in a car wreck and break your legs that heal in a years time, (or) that car crash could have made you a parapaledgic (sp, sorry).
No matter the outline, the lessons, the joys, the hardships, in the end, when we go back to the other side, we shake hands with our other key players, and move on to the planning of the next outline. BECAUSE ALLLLLLL of the things that happened gained us experience points to evolve our soul.
Hitler, said to be one of the most vile human beings ever.... was a BRILLIANT soul. On that side he said, I have this great effin idea. Ill put you thru many horrible things, and kill you faster than you would have had to live in that life, so you can get that shit outta the way?!
And like Tom Cruise in Jerry McGuire, stands on the office desk and demands,
WHOS COMING WITH ME?!
As souls we understood the greater cause. And we agreed.
I dont make light of the Holocaust, I was in Auschwitz Germany. I was living there when the Berlin Wall fell, I saw Anne Franks house, been to the memorials and I have felt the gravity of that place, and some still displaced souls...
But on that side we agreed.
So. No one "goes to hell" for their "wicked ways". Period.
But. When they die, and for whatever dark thing they feel guilty for, they enter purgatory cause they feel unworthy of the light.
Wanna know what I believe happens to them them.
Hold on to your rocker, im about to go full nuts.... lol
When they put themselves in purgatory, they become subservient in a certain way.
1)They become animals/ pets. A lifetime of having to depend on someone else, and loyalty and to give love.
- They become miscarried and aborted babies, infant losses.
The lesson is to be LOVE and to experience unconditional love, but in their purgatory they dont get to stay long enough to gain much lesson/experience points.
Simply its like going into the candy shop and only being able to smell it but not taste anything.
And it's also a lesson you help another soul on their lifes path.
For many it will be our last because of the pole reversal in about 35 years and that will coinside with "the fall".
Almost every soul has all of their boxes of experience checked, when so many rejoin with the one source then we will have the power to switch to higher frequency, and the struggles of this plane will be no more. ;)