When you look at the two pictures below, what emotions do you see?
Look at Picture A below, what emotion do you see here?
Could you agree that it looks like this woman may be ANGRY?
Could you agree that it looks like this woman may be ANGRY?
Yeah?
Cool.
If you had to give Picture B an emotion, what would it be?
Could you agree that it looks like this woman is HAPPY?
Yeah?
Sweet.
Great… so the reason I had you label these expressions, is because I’m going to show you a mental-emotional strategy and sequence that could change your life forever...
And… I get it...
That’s quite a statement right there.
But I wouldn't be saying that if I didn’t truly believe it for myself.
I'm about to show you a powerful strategy and simple mental sequence that will:
- Allow you to overcome negative emotions IMMEDIATELY
- Help you take control of ALL of the thoughts and emotions you experience
- Show you how to connect to POWERFUL mental-emotional states
If you could learn a practical tool for achieving these three things, would it be worth the time to focus and read this article for the next five minutes?
Will you give me a few moments to put the pieces together for you?
Solid. Let's do it!
Let's Begin With A Simple Concept
Tell me what happens when you take Picture B (happy), and place it on top of Picture A (anger).
What do you see?
You see Picture B (happy), right?
It’s overlaying Picture A, and now all you see is the happy woman.
Now, let's take Picture A (anger), and put it on top of Picture B (happy).
Now we only see Picture A (anger).
We are currently only perceiving the angry woman.
What is happening here?
Essentially what we’ve done is taken one concept (i.e. “anger”) and laid it on top of another concept (i.e. “happy”), and the concept that is on top is what we experience.
Are you following?
Great. Now stay with me here, I’m about to bring this all full circle in an extremely practical way, but I need to share with you a few more vital concepts to connect all the dots for you!
What Happens When We Place One Concept On Top Of Another?
In the example above, we simply placed a photo on top of another photo.
This simple act, essentially brought the top photo into full perspective, while the bottom photo essentially vanished.
If I had overlaid Picture B (happy) on top of Picture A (anger) BEFORE posting this article and I had never said anything about Picture A (angry), you would NEVER HAD KNOWN that the concept of anger had EVER been present.
“Okay axios, I get it...when I lay something over something else it seems to disappear. How is this at all relevant to me?”
I will bring this full circle in just a moment - but for now - just remember that when you stack a concept on top of another concept, the one below it seems to disappear...
This simple idea is extremely relevant to you because this is how your mind works.
Let me explain…
Going Meta
Our mind is extremely interesting in that it has an ability that separates us from MOST other species on Earth.
This ability is the reason for why our consciousness seems to be “evolved” when compared to a frog or a rabbit.
Simply put, our mind is REFLEXIVE in nature.
By "reflexive" I mean that the mind can literally have thoughts and then turn those thoughts back onto itself.
We are able to have thoughts about our thoughts!
We can also have feelings about thoughts… or thoughts about feelings… or feelings ABOUT feelings!
We can literally reflect UPON our consciousness.
Now you might be thinking…
“So what?”
Although it may not seem obvious at first… it becomes obvious when you understand this...
States About States
When we reflect upon our consciousness, something interesting happens.
In a nutshell, a higher level “state” is formed.
When I say “state” I am referring to THOUGHTS and FEELINGS (TF).
IMPORTANT: As we move forward, I will reference thoughts and feelings with the acronym: “TF”
IMPORTANT: “TF” = a mind-body state of being
So when we reflect upon a thought or feeling, a higher level “state” is formed.
We call this state a "Meta-State."
“Meta” means “above” or “beyond.”
When you go above or beyond something, you are going meta to it.
Think of the word “metamorphosis”. You are literally morphing BEYOND your current state. (i.e. the metamorphosis of a caterpillar into a butterfly)
Think of the word “metaphor”. You are sharing a concept that exists BEYOND the concept or reality at hand. (i.e. "Her beauty entranced me like a spiraling fire.")
A “Meta-State” is a higher level state.
It’s a state that reflects upon a previous or primary state.
IMPORTANT: When I say “primary state” I am referring to an initial thought-feeling (TF).
When a Meta-State (a higher level state) is placed on top of the primary state (the initial state), the Meta-State appears predominately while the primary state seems to disappear!
In Example:
You may have an initial feeling of "anger" and then you can reflect upon that anger...maybe you could feel "sad" about that anger." The "sad" feeling is the Meta-State. It's your reflection of your initial "anger". The anger is the primary state. It was your initial feeling state.
Primary State = Anger
Meta-State = Sad
Did I lose you?
If so, do not worry!
This will make a lot more sense as I show you more examples and bring it all full circle. Hang in there!
Understanding Your Meta-Cognition
Now Meta-States are more complex states that arise from our self-reflexive consciousness.
When you have thoughts about what you were just thinking or feeling, you’ve just had a Meta-Thought.
When you feel something about what you’re thinking or feeling, you’ve just had a Meta-Feeling.
Here are a few examples of this:
Meta-Thought: Thought About A Thought
“I have a strategy regarding my plans".
Meta-Feeling: Feeling About A Thought
“I’m confused about my plans.”
Meta-Thought: Thought About A Feeling
"I have an idea about this anger.”
Meta-Feeling: Feeling About A Feeling
"I’m upset about my rage.”
These aspects make up your Meta-Cognition.
Your Meta-Cognition is your true power.
Let me show you why that is...
Meta States Control The Experience
So we begin with a primary state, right?
An initial thought or feeling...
“I feel angry”
But then our mind can reflect UPON this state.
Our mind goes “meta” to this first layer of consciousness by simply thinking or feeling about our primary state (anger):
“I feel upset about my anger”
Now let’s take a quick moment to analyze what just happened here.
In the primary state, we were clearly angry, right?
“I feel angry”
However, when we went meta to this state, something changed…
“I feel UPSET by my anger.”
Are we still angry?
Not quite anymore, right?
Well what are we then..?
Can you guess?
Yes, you’re right… we are now UPSET.
We are no longer angry.
The Meta-State has shifted the experience entirely.
One moment ago we were angry, but then when our mind reflected upon that anger, suddenly we were upset.
In one swift moment, our Meta-Cognition took control of the experience.
Bringing It All Full Circle
Remember the two pictures I presented in the beginning of this article?
Remember how we placed Picture A (anger) above Picture B (happy)? And the Picture B (happy) above Picture A (anger)?
What happened? Do you remember?
Yes, exactly - the picture that was ABOVE or META to the one below it, dominated our perspective.
The truth is, our perspective was TRANSFORMED simply by placing one concept ON TOP OF another concept.
Are you beginning to see the correlations here?
Are you beginning to understand the true power of your mind?
If we take a feeling such as anger… and then lay another feeling on top of it… that initial feeling or primary state changes (or disappears!).
In this instance, if we placed “happy” over “anger”, what would we be?
We would be happily angry!
Can you imagine yourself being happily angry?
What is that like for you?
Is it anger?
Not really, right?
Because you’re happy about being angry…
Have you ever felt this way before?
I know I have….
QUICK STORY:
I’m not the type of person that gets angry easily, and so I remember a time when someone did something that was unacceptable to me. I was really angry! However, there was a part of me that wasn’t sure how to express that anger. When I finally built up the courage to just express my anger to that person, I suddenly felt great. I felt happy about it! I felt happily angry!
Meta-Stating Your Life
I’m going to play out a few more examples here so you really GET IT.
Once you GET IT, it will change how you operate your mind.
Why? Because you will realize the true power that you have IN EACH AND EVERY MOMENT OF YOUR LIFE.
Cool? Cool.
In an earlier example we had said that we were initially feeling ANGRY.
Our primary state was anger.
Then when we reflected upon that anger, we were UPSET.
So our Meta-State was UPSET.
We were upset about our anger.
At this point, we feel upset about our anger, and that’s still not very useful or resourceful, right?
Would you ever choose to feel this way?
No way!
So let's say you reflected UPON feeling upset about your anger.
Maybe you would say something like this...
“I feel OPEN to feeling upset about my anger.”
WHAAAAT?!
Did you observe what just happened here!?
We literally went from a state of anger...then reflected upon that anger, which led to feeling upset…
Then we reflected upon feeling upset about the anger, and now we feel open!
In a few moments, we went from ANGER to OPEN, two extremes yet it was as if our mind’s reflexive abilities allowed for a quantum leap in our experience!
The Infinite Mirroring Of Our Mind
Have you ever taken a mirror and reflected it upon itself?
I do this all the time… it’s the trippiest thing you can do in your spare time (lol).
If you haven’t tried this yet, please go into your bathroom right now, take a mirror or camera in there and reflect them on each other and see what happens for yourself.
What do you see?
You could describe it as an INFINITE realm of possibilities.
When you reflect a mirror on a mirror, it's almost as if suddenly, an infinite amount of realities co-exist.
Your mind operates from a similar perspective.
When you reflect upon your thoughts and feelings (TF), and then reflect upon those TF upon those TF…
Suddenly, you’ve traveled well beyond where you were at into a thought and feeling space that is quite different.
In our example, we went from anger to openness.
That’s quite a leap!
And did you need to really do much to get there?
NO! You didn’t have to do much of anything!
So let's relate this back to your life…
How Any Steemit Creator Can Effectively Utilize Their Meta-Cognition
Let's say that you want to start writing and posting more on Steemit, but as you sit down and start typing out content, you suddenly feel “stuck.”
The words just aren’t coming out, the concept isn’t coming together, and you simply feel “stuck”.
In this moment, you have two choices:
Choice #1) Continue to focus and feed into this feeling of STUCK so you feel more STUCK.
OR
Choice #2) Reflect upon what you think or how you feel about being STUCK.
Since we already know the result of choice #1 (feeling more stuck), let's say that you decide to choose the latter choice (#2).
So we reflect upon feeling stuck and that leads us to this TF…
“I feel frustrated about feeling stuck.”
Hm, frustration isn’t quite going to get you to where you want to be, right?
I’ve personally never created anything great while in a state of frustration.
At this point you might want to ask yourself…
“What’s good about this frustration?”
You might say something like…
“It’s good in that it means I’m on my way to working through my feelings of feeling stuck.”
How do you feel about that?
“I feel hopeful...like I really feel like there’s HOPE that I can work through my my frustrating feelings about feeling stuck.”
What do you feel about being hopeful?
I feel DETERMINED to change!
How does it feel to be determined now?
“It feels EMPOWERING because I know I can take control of my mind whenever I choose to do so!”
How does it feel to be empowered in reference to your initial feeling of being stuck?
“I’m fucking EXCITED because I have all these thoughts and ideas rushing to me. There’s a storm of brilliance in my mind right now! I’m bubbling with creativity! I can do it! I need to start writing NOW!”
A quite obvious shift there eh?
You went from a state of feeling creatively stuck, to a “storm of brilliance” merely by asking yourself a few simple questions.
But you may be saying…
“Yeah Axios, this is really cool but it still feels a bit complex. Like, if I were at home by myself, I'd likely still be stuck because I wouldn't know what to ask myself.”
Fair enough, let's simplify the process...
The Meta-Verse: Meta-Cognition, Simplified
I’m going to give you the exact sequence, then we’ll put that formula into action. Capish?
SEQUENCE:
Thought/Feeling → Appreciate → Appreciate → Appreciate → Feeling...
If I were to break down the sequence in words...
- Observe your primary thoughts and feelings
- Reflect upon those TF by appreciating something about them
- Reflect upon those new TF (the new Meta-TF) by appreciating something about them
- Reflect upon those new TF (the new Meta-TF) by appreciating something about them
- Reflect upon how you FEEL about the new Meta-TF
Step #5 can repeat until you find a feeling that you want to embrace!
In Example…
Are you feeling shitty today?
Let's say that you are…
“Yes, I’m feeling shitty today.”
(Step 1 complete. You have observed the primary TF)
What can you appreciate about feeling shitty?
Here’s a realistic response to that question
“Well...I don’t know Axios, there’s not that much to appreciate about feeling like shit.”
Okay… I get it, no one would ever CHOOSE to feel like shit...but is it possible to find one small thing that you could appreciate about? Just one tiny thing?
“I guess so… Um, well… Feeling like shit often times shows me how to persevere. I can appreciate that it teaches me how to persevere.”
(Step 2 complete. You have reflected upon the primary TF by finding something to appreciate about it.)
Nice! What do you appreciate about being able to persevere?
“I appreciate that it feels like I am capable, like I can do anything I set my mind to.”
(Step 3 complete. You have reflected upon the Meta-State by finding something to appreciate about it.)
Wow! And what do you appreciate about being capable and able to do anything you set your mind to?
“I'm appreciating the fact that I can be Unstoppable. Like no one can stop me. I’m on fire!”
(Step 4 complete. You have reflected upon the Meta-State by finding something to appreciate about it.)
How does it feel to be on fire?
“It feels like I am so alive! Like I’m really being who I came here to become!”
(Step 5 complete. You have reflected upon the Meta-State by feeling something about it)
How does it feel to be who you came here to become!?
“So fucking fulfilling. I really believe that I’m here to make a difference in this world.”
(Step 5 extension. You can have as many feelings about feelings at this point. There is not limit here. The sequence ends when you feel satisfied with your current Meta-State.
Meta-Verse In Review
In a nutshell, we started with a thought or feeling that wasn't too sexy...
We took that TF and reflected upon it using the power of appreciation.
We continued to do that until we started to bring out resourceful and empowering Meta-TF's.
Then we reflected upon the resourceful Meta-TF's by feeling something about them.
We found the feeling we liked the most and embraced it.
SEQUENCE:
Thought/Feeling → Appreciate → Appreciate → Appreciate → Feeling...
The Meta-Verse Will Change Your Life Forever
The Meta-Verse Will Change Your Life Forever
You have so much power available to you and it all begins with what you think, how you feel, and how you reflect your thoughts and feelings upon thoughts and feelings.
It’s as simple as that.
Understanding this concept alone, is enough!
You do not have to be a spiritual guru, a doctorate of psychology, or a highly advanced extraterrestrial being to truly grasp this.
And it doesn’t matter where you are at or how you are feeling for within a moment's time, you can completely transcend any emotional state into a state that is empowering and resourceful.
Is it easy?
Yes.
Is it easy to actually choose to take action and do it?
Yes… but…
You just need to do it!
Your mind will try to convince you that doing it won’t work.
Your ego will say something like “nah man, these feelings we're having right now ARE REAL. No self help bullshit is gonna fix this hell hole of a mess we’re in right now…”
Don’t believe it!
When you make the CHOICE to GO META, you’ll immediately begin to change.
BUT, you need to make the choice, and act upon it.
A Revolutionary Act
In my opinion, this ability to go meta to every thought and feeling that we have is a revolutionary act.
Those who truly embody this simple act are the ones who will have the energy, focus, and drive required to make TRUE change happen within themselves and the world around them.
Always remember that how you feel right now is not STATIC.
You are a DYNAMIC being.
You are a dynamic being, and because of this, you are capable of changing from one moment to the next moment instantaneously.
And the Meta-State… a state BEYOND a state… is always available to you.
Thus, the next time you catch yourself thinking or feeling in a not-so-empowering way, choose to think or feel BEYOND it.
Choose to use the Meta-Verse.
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