Can a girl and a boy be best friends without falling for each other?

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Good morning dearies, Trust ou all had a blast last night. Its you girl Hive account@elaebi writing you all again. Before heading on with the subject matter for today, I'd like to clear the air that this is my personal view, everyone is entitled to their own decision and opinion. My answers the above question is "Yes" and "No". My best friend is a guy and we've been best friends for about 5 years now. We haven't been in a room for an entire night though because this is how people test of a guy and a girl can have a platonic relationship but I can beat my chest to say he wouldn't try anything sexually if we are kept in that situation. No bond A girl and a guy can be best friends without falling for each other if you set your boundaries right. Nothing can beat the bond we have. Its a matter of understanding each other and and a changing your mindset. You both should know your boundaries, its quite normal to be a not jealous when you see him with other female friends but you shouldn't go completely naked in front of him, or kiss him or even high him so closely for a long time.

Having a guy as my best friend has though me so many things. I don't have to put up with female dramas like gossiping around, " He said", "She said" and all that. My best friend teaches me so many things relationship wise and talk to to him when I meet a new guy or want a relationship advice. I know his girlfriend and he knows I'm dating his Friend too so a boy and a guy can actually be best friends without falling with each other.

On the otherhand, my answer to the title of my post is No. Friendship is the starting point for what we call love. The chances of being best friends with a the opposite sex without falling for him/her is 70/30. Here I'd say No because science has proven it that opposite terms attract. In a close friendship, caring is most a times mistaken for feelings and you might never get to know the true feelings of your best friend. Eventually after being beat friends for a while, they start developing feelings for each other but might never get to express it because along the line it could ruin their friendship. It becomes unbearably painful for both parties to let go of what they really feel and could die in silence by burning it in their hearts. Sometimes its the girls who catch feelings first and sometimes its the guys. As long as you Tell each other every and anything, then there is every possibility that you two will get sexually attracted to each other. Feelings are what creates friendship. You may start off as just friends but later grow more feelings for each other which might cause you two to fall for each other. Many couples today got married to their best friends so a man and a woman cannot be best friends without catching feelings for each other.

What is your own opinion???

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