One day we were best friends, the next I was belittled, lied to and thrown under the bus for something I didn't do. I was completely bewildered and unaware about why this was happening. The truth is, I did nothing. I simply stood my ground in the midst of a bully and it didn't go over well.
Are there people in your life that leave you exasperated and mentally exhausted?
Do you find that it is easier to walk away than consistently face extreme aggression when trying to explain a motive or a point of view?
Next time you feel belittled and manipulated by a specific person in your life. Take note, you may be dealing with a bully.
Bullies act Irrationally.
Bullies alter facts to fit a situation..
Bullies are egocentric.
Bullies will throw you under the bus.
Bullies thrive on praise.
Bullies will lie to win an argument.
Dealing with bullies is always tricky.
Best of luck, and never take an attack from a bully personally!