Thanks for the advice. I've purposefully left out names and things like that to try and remain anonymous while processing some of the events I've blogged about here. You may be glad to know that I'm actually doing pretty well, all things considered, and I have fully accepted the advice that the best revenge is to live well without her. I'm just trying to make a log of some insights as I research more and more; I'll probably turn to some different subject matter fairly soon so I'm not seen as a "one trick pony" here.