Most of us have the same old routines in our daily lives. We have our morning routine, then we drive to work, then we go to the supermarket etc. We get so stuck in our ways that being stuck actually feels normal, and if anything slightly changes your routine, it can throw your whole day into chaos.
Our brains are designed to do the same thing over and over. We feel comfortable doing things the way that we do it, and if anything throws out that rhythm it is often difficult to accept. We become grumpy over the littlest things and we turn into unhappy grumpy miserable people.
Change is hard
Change is so hard. It is often so hard that we cannot accept it. We are so completely stuck in our ways of doing things, that we do not embrace change and make the best of it, instead we become miserable people constantly fighting against the change and then you are stuck in a miserable job and you change into a robot, just doing things because you have to.
Who of you have ever read the book "Who moved my cheese?" ? This book was written by Ken Blanchard and Spencer Johnson and it will be an absolute wonderful addition to your bookshelf. It is a fast read but in that short book, you learn more than you can ever imagine. It will help you to understand why change is in fact not a bad thing, but it will also teach you how to deal with change.
Change is a choice!
You have to decide if you want to be stuck in a rut, or if you want to change your life for the better. Do not let opportunities pass you by because you are too scared to take the jump.
If that opportunity is gone, it is gone forever, but if you made your decision, stick by it. There is nothing worse than someone constantly regretting the choices that they made in life. You should be self assured with your decisions otherwise that very familiar question of "What if?" will creep up on you more times than you can imagine.
If you regret things, it will change your life and you will turn into a negative person, and we all know that negative vibrations attract more negative things. Soon you might be noticed as the grumpy one and it is very difficult to get out of that situation.
To go ahead in life, change is necessary!
Reasons why change is actually good for you!
1. You are moved out of your comfort zone. If you change your comfort zone, you will learn new things and you might be totally surprised at what you thought you couldn't do.
2. You will gain more life experience! There are so many opportunities out there that you won't believe! I am sure that you missed out on some awesome opportunities just because you were too scared to take a chance. The whole world is open in front of you. What do you want people to remember when you are not longer roaming the earth? You now have an opportunity to find out exactly who you are and what you want to become in life.
3. Remember that it is never too late to do anything. You become more flexible and relaxed if you embrace change more. Once you accept change, and you realized that it is a good thing, you will understand that you should never get too comfortable in one place.
4. Once you embrace change, you will become a happier person! When you are happy, change doesn't even really matter. You will realize that you are open to new things, and if you make a mistake, there is always the next opportunity, and you will know exactly how to handle it.
