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Maturity maybe the most challenging part for the grown-ups to achieve.
Why?
In your point of view, are you mature enough?
I’ve read some part of this book titled “How to Succeed” by Brian Adams and I’m glad I read it.
Part of this book discussed about the best attitude that a mature person should be. According to this book “Maturity comes through knowing the real you”.“Maturity is the quality of behaving mentally and emotionally like an adult”, from Cambridge Dictionary.
Do you have the factors of a mature person?
Following are the best examples of summed factors a person that can be called as a Mature:
Maturity is patience. Some of us relate to this, aren’t we? Being impatient is a very immature way of handling things, like you cannot fast forward all things in life we should be patient for the outcome to prosper and not demanding to happen it now. Somethings are better of delaying and in the end you will know that it is worth the wait.
Maturity is being persevere. Sticking to the plan is sometimes hard to do. Immature persons tend to be very constant in changing plans. Like what happened from a broken marriage, maybe one of them is having a change of heart and not true to his/ her word of being bond to each other. Yes, you might say that the only constant in this world is change but isn’t it the right time for you to set a goal and stick to it?
Maturity is acceptance. The ability to face defeat, spiteful, anger with no hatred at all. Sometimes we often tell ourselves to be as gentle as we can, but some point in our lives someone might break of what we have keeping and it is still good sometimes to let it all out your frustrations. But we should restrain ourselves from doing it because that is immaturity.
Maturity is loyalty. We know what it is, but are you doing it? It is easy to say to be loyal but most of us know that we’re not doing it. Being a loyal according to Meriam Webster “having or showing complete and constant support for someone or something”. In order to be mature you have to be supportive all the way and not other way around.
Maturity is being responsible. Living up to your responsibilities means keeping your word. It so immature not to keep our promises, refuse to take accountability of our mistakes and tend to falsely convincing ourselves that it is not our fault. It is not true that “promises are meant to be broken”, they just the alibis of an immature person. Keeping your word stands of how well you handle things constantly with no complaining and not giving up whatever matters may happen.
Maturity is integrity. The quality of being honest and fair. Honest and fair persons are so hard to find today. We know that, are you one of them? Since being honest here involve, are you true to yourself? Immature persons are tending to being untrue to themselves, without honesty there is no peace of mind and self-respect. Live what a mature should have, be fair and be honest all the time.
Maturity is being subjective. They make decision subjectively and fair. They are bound of seeking truth rather than falsely blaming one another. In spite of difficulty, mature people always strive of what is right and fair judgement.
Maturity is channeling your strength. Not the physical aspect, but your ability of showing your creativeness and able to blossom with that talent. Being mature is able to grow your potential, learn something new and see things out of the box.
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Yours Truly,
