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A quick series of fortunate event might just be a definitive factor in one's life either advantageously or disadvantageously, truth is that sometimes bad experiences can bring out talent and and a show of unbelievability and that's why you see people who sells book of NDE's do so well, that's why you see people who detail their rape stories on books or on tapes gets attention of people and it's becomes to not an expected end, but to an unbelievable outcome. That said no one prays for misfortunes but believe me it's not every perfect life that goes ahead to have a life long accomplishment. It's of course always challenging, psychologically cumbersome to accept that you can make something out of your really problematic life especially when you've been written off as someone who can only be a burden rather than a means to upliftment.
I lived all my life in fear of what the third party's opinion of me would seem and it hurt my abilities of understanding the complexity of the human existence at an earlier stage, you see one thing about always being rejected, secluded and alone, is that it gives you time to analyze while others are busy having fun and meeting numerous friends, so the truth is that someone who is alone might feel suicidal after their series of experiences in life but on the positive side they're grown in thoughts, they're matured in their mental capacity even if they hardly recognise it. So it's difficult to accept that you could make a castle out of mess and it's more easier to believe that you could make something out a gold. In my experience I believe the tool that's being used to actualise a prospect wouldn't really matter provided the project is actually something that'll be spoken about for a long period of time.
Nevertheless, we're what we are and we're not totally surplus to requirement Irrespective of what life sector we find ourselves in. It's always mundane when you're fresh from a really terrible experience and you're not quick and rearing to go. I've actually lost a lot of opportunities in life to have a better life but the truth is not everyone needs an opportunity sometimes you need a breakthrough which of course will accept all the baggages and disqualifications that comes with you. That said, Opportunities discriminates a lot, while breakthrough doesn't and we've been blind to the fact that everyone needs opportunities which is really wrong. To be forewarned means you'd really been reassured that the right cause you're living for is somewhere in the offing. I believe in recycling, sometimes really cantankerous things can have their usefulness and we just haven't known that bad can go be and good can be bad depending on perspective.
In conclusion I feel we're lost in a myriad as people, at 25 years of age I've seen the harshest of life experience and sometimes as much as I see this as an encumbrance, I see it as a discovery into the in-depth life of many in my situation, so what if my writings are like a wake-up call? What if I'm the voice of the voiceless? Is there a reason why I'm not? I chose to see my life as an experiment and at one time, experiments go wrong, that doesn't mean they turn bad or end up bad, sometimes some certain experiments aren't suppose to happen but they eventually happened, do we cast out every experiments turned bad? Do we look into places simply because we're originally meant to look into them? Do we find the woman of our dreams by setting out to have a picture in our mind? I'll leave you to this reflections to ponder on, till next time.
@Josediccus, your brother in pen and video 📷
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