A few days back I wrote a poem about characteristics required to be a good therapist and to practice therapy authentically. So, I thought of sharing it here. Would love to hear your feedback on it!
As I sit silently
With the exit of last client of the day finally.
It has been 45 years
And still with each client I discover new spheres.
Being a wounded healer
Personal therapy keeps checking on my countertransference.
I encourage clients to examine their own feelings, thoughts and actions
Rather than attempting to impose my values during the interaction.
In strive to be an efficient therapist
I have evolved to be an ablest.
And while maintaining qualities of a therapist
Acknowledging my real self is a must.
After interacting with so many clients
Over time there are many things I have learnt.
More than focusing on technique
Achieving therapeutic alliance is what I seek.
I have developed a strong identity
Which allows me to being open to change and diversity.
And attaining interpersonal expertise
Helps me in maintaining healthy boundaries.
Appreciating and respecting my self
Enables authenticity, sincerity and honesty itself.
My decisions allow me to live my life with cheer
And along comes some good sense of humor with some tears.
Doesn’t mean I am perfect, I also make errors from the misconception
But I don’t dismiss them rather learn and move on.
Not in the past or future but living in the present
Inspires me to think of other’s contentment.
Being mindful of mine and other’s culture and differences
Allows me to get involved deeply to derive meaning of their experiences.
I am passionate and courageous
To support those who feel helpless.
I know, these are too many good qualities to be a human
But rather than being black-or-white I sway on the continuum.
These are few qualities that I try to bear
While sitting in a therapist’s chair.