Sooner or later, a man needs to grow up. A man who likes to cheat and meet several women at the same time cannot be called mature. It is possible that he has serious problems and his lifestyle is a way to escape from reality. Maybe he just does not want to grow up. Anyway, but a mature man in a relationship is leaning toward monogamy.
Are you dating a man who refuses a serious relationship? Most likely, this is not your man. Here are a few signs of an immature person to help you draw certain conclusions:
Such a man does not realize the value of true love.
To get involved and sincerely love later is the greatest gift that gives us life. True love has always been and will be much more beautiful relationship without any commitment. A man who is unable to realize the value of one woman does not know what true love is.
A woman who believes that the behavior of an immature man will change with time may face traumatic consequences. She will not be able to change a person ... Unless a man decides that he wants a serious and stable relationship.
Such a man does not appreciate and does not respect you.
In order to devote himself to the relationship with one woman, a man must see in his chosen one something special. When he really appreciates and considers her his only, he takes the relationship carefully and seriously.
Of course, the candy-bouquet period cannot last forever. If relationships continue to develop, the bond between the two people grows stronger. At this stage, both the man and the woman have already made out something remarkable in each other. If this did not happen and does not happen, then, in principle, there was no relationship, and no.
And if he is torn from one friend to another, it means that he is not able to respect or appreciate his intended soulmate. Why waste time on such a person?
Such men are never around when you need them.
There are ups and downs in life. Sometimes the fall period may be delayed. A serious man will not allow difficulties to destroy a relationship. He will be next to the chosen one in difficult times. He will go with her through all the dark times. He will not give up so easily.
If a person is able to be close at a difficult moment, this is a good sign. He most likely will not lie and meet with others behind your back. Because if there are so many simple options, why stay with the difficult?
Such a man does not seek to spend with you as much time as possible.
A man who really wants to be with one darling, will not waste time on the endless search for new love hobbies. No, he will spend this time with a girl in a relationship with whom he is genuinely interested.
With each date, he will discover something new and wonderful in this woman.
If a man does not see the point of spending enough time with you, then (most likely) he does not seek to establish a strong relationship.
The question arises: “Will such a man be true to you?” If you have already asked yourself this question more than once, most likely, this is not your man.
Such a man quickly loses interest in a woman.
To meet means to get to know each other closer. When two people truly love each other, they want to do everything together. As soon as the relationship moves to the next stage and becomes more serious, neither the man nor the woman is looking for entertainment on the side.
Communication between partners is gradually growing stronger. If this does not happen, then it’s not possible to talk about relationships in principle.
Continuing to spend time together, partners develop relationships. All this should occur at will, not under duress. If a man is genuinely interested, he will do everything to prevent the spark of love from extinguishing.
In short, you need a mature man. You do not need a "child" who started playing. Such a person can not be for you a reliable companion of life. First he needs to grow up.