I feel so happy each time i see another person, reading and trying to look for alternative ways of raising children. Everything you said based on the work of this authors is super important. In all of the time i have being studying about parenting: Attachment and democratic parenting styles, i have come to a conclusion which is true for most parents (not all of them): They love their children more than anything but most of them lack the right tools to discipline them in a way that doesn't violate their human rights, but given the right information and some other tools, most parents are willing to change their ways. Most parents after learning this new ways, find also the effectiveness and benefits for their families that comes with treating your children with respect according to their necessities and developmental stage.